Best Selling Author Tim Connor Announces the Release of His 48th Book - Nit-pickers, Naggers and Tyrants, Turn Them Off or Tune Them Out

Everyone has a nit-picker or nagger in their life. This book will help you deal with them and control their impact on your self-esteem, success, happiness and life.

(PRWEB) December 22, 2004 -- Take back control of your life and re-awaken the real you. The world is full of nit-pickers and naggers. They are in the bedroom, classroom, playroom, and the boardroom. No one is immune to the sting of these people and their incessant need to change us, correct us, or generally wreak havoc in our lives. There are as many ways that people nag and nit-pick as there are people. Here are just a few of the common ones:

- They constantly interrupt you sending the message that what you have to say is unimportant.

- They tend to argue with you about everything. You are never right.

- They never listen to you; your opinions, beliefs or feelings.

- They invalidate you every chance they get.

- They are often insensitive to your needs or wants.

- They try to manipulate you into their way of thinking, feeling or believing.

- They embarrass you in public.

- They humiliate you.

And this is just the beginning. The consequences of having a nagger or nit-picker in your life are immense:

- They can cause your stress levels to skyrocket.

- They can lower your self-esteem.

- They can make you feel unworthy.

- They make you just want to give in, give up, and run and hide.

- They often undermine your success, happiness, and self-confidence.

The author has some answers for those of you who are plagued with a nit-picker, nagger, or tyrant in your life. This book will show you how to tune them out or turn them off. It is filled with ideas, techniques, and motivation that will help you get back control of your life and your spirit of adventure and happiness.

One of the many important principles that will help you rid yourself of this emotional and psychological abuse is the concept of perceptions. Each of us brings unique knowledge and experience to every relationship and situation. We are all right in our own mind. Truth for us is what works for us as we move down the highway of life. Truth is no respecter of opinions, fads, arrogance, or ignorance. We do not manipulate truth to fit our own sense of values or beliefs. Truth is. Reality is. Whether we choose to see it or not does not deny its existence.

If an employee believes he is underpaid. If a customer believes she has been treated poorly. If your spouse believes you don't spend adequate time with him or her. If your child feels you are being too strict. If a student believes your demands are unrealistic. If a stockholder believes you have acted unwisely. All of these are perceptions in their minds. True or false. Right or wrong. It doesn't matter. If they believe it, it is true for them.

The simple principle that can dramatically change the quality of all of your relationships is this: You were not put here to change anyone but yourself. To the degree you can accept and apply this simple lesson in your life, you will discover that more and more people will want to be around you and with you.

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