Is Your Valentine the Cheating Kind?

Some men are more likely to cheat than others because of their background, past history or certain character traits. What about the man in your life? Is your Valentine the cheating kind? Answer these 7 questions to see if your man is a potential cheater.

(PRWEB) January 31, 2005 -- According to statistics, 50% to 70% of men cheat on their mates. What type of man is most likely to cheat? Ruth Houston, infidelity expert and author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs says, Some men are more likely to cheat than others. You can tell by looking at certain things in their background, their past history, or certain character traits."

What about the man in your life? Is your valentine the cheating kind? Houston says the answers to the following questions will help you rate your mate to see if hes a potential cheater.

Questions:

1.    Does he thrive on adventure?

2.    Did he have a great deal of sexual experience prior to your relationship?

3.    Does he have lots of female friends?

4.    Does he have male friends who are cheating on their wives or girlfriends?

5.    Does he have a parent who cheated?

6.    Did he cheat in any of his past relationships?

7.    Does he feel that infidelity is really no big deal?

What your answers mean:

1.    Some men enjoy all the suspense, deception and intrigue that accompany infidelity. Theyll cheat just for the thrill of the chase."

2.    Studies reveal that men who were extremely sexually active before settling down in a committed relationship are more apt to engage in sex outside that relationship. Dont expect a leopard to change his spots.

3.    Close friendships with women are a common starting point for infidelity. Friends can quickly turn into lovers. The closer the friendship, the greater the odds that it will develop into an affair.

4.    Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. If his friends are cheating, hell soon be cheating too.

5.    Infidelity tends to run in families. Children of unfaithful parents are often programmed to follow in their footsteps, considering infidelity to be the norm.

6.    Once a cheater, always a cheater." There are exceptions, but statistically speaking, if he cheated once, hes more apt to do it again. His history will probably repeat itself.

7.    If he doesnt believe that infidelity is wrong, his behavior will reflect his beliefs.

The more 'yes answers you have, the greater the likelihood that you have a potential cheater on your hands. Even you only have one 'yes, Houston warns," theres still cause for concern. Fortunately, there are at least a dozen precautions you can take." For a FREE tip sheet entitled 12 Ways to Handle a Potential Cheater," send an e-mail to: CheatingInfo@aol.com (CheatingInfo at aol.com) with the words "12 Ways" in the subject line.

Evaluating the Results

Since some answers carry more weight than others" says Houston, youll want to evaluate the results. You need to know if youre dealing with a Potential Cheater, a Common "Garden-Variety" Cheater, an Experienced Cheater, or a Hard-Core Cheater."

If you answered yes to #1, #2, or #5 (but not all three), hes a Potential Cheater who will probably cheat if the opportunity presents itself.

If you answered yes to #3 or #4 alone, together, or in combination with #1 or #2, hes a Common "Garden-Variety" Cheater who will cheat if he feels he can do it without getting caught.

If you answered yes to #6 alone or in combination with #1,#2, #3, #4, or #5 youre dealing with an Experienced Cheater whos probably good at covering his tracks. Watch him like a hawk and familiarize yourself with the 21 categories of telltale signs.

If you answered yes to #7 alone ( This ones the biggie) or in combination with any others, youve got a Hard-Core Cheater on your hands whos probably already having an affair. Make sure you know how to recognize the telltale signs. Visit http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com

Free Tip Sheet to Help You Deal With a Potential Cheater

Whether youre dating a potential cheater or married to one you need to know what to do. Ruth Houstons free tip sheet, 12 Ways to Handle a Potential Cheater, will give you some successful strategies to use in dealing with a potential cheater and tell you what precautions to take. To receive your free personal copy of this valuable tip sheet, send an e-mail to: CheatingInfo@aol.com (CheatingInfo at aol.com) with the words "12 Ways" in the subject line.

About Ruth Houston:

Infidelity expert, Ruth Houston is the nations leading authority on signs of infidelity. Her book Is He Cheating on You? -- 829 Telltale Signs, documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Based on 10 years of in-depth research on infidelity, its the most comprehensive infidelity reference of its kind. (Available from www.InfidelityAdvice.com or 800-431-1579) Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, the New York Post, the Toronto Sun, First magazine, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, and numerous other publications. She has been a guest on Good Day New York, Telemundo, TalkAmerica, 1010 WINS and over 100 radio and TV talk shows in the US, Europe and the Caribbean.

To schedule an interview with Ruth Houston:

Call 718 592-6039 or e-mail her at InfidelityExpert@gmail.com (InfidelityExpert at gmail.com)

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