Cupids Gone A.W.O.L. Worlds Largest Dating Service Reminds Singles Not to Leave Romance to Chance

In response to an article published in a national newspaper which reprimanded Cupid for taking a proverbial powder, Paul Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating reassures singles that there is a special someone out there. But dont leave it all to chance. Take positive steps to find that someone.

In response to an article published in a national newspaper which reprimanded Cupid for taking a proverbial powder, Paul Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating reassures singles that there is a special someone out there. But dont leave it all to chance. Take positive steps to find that someone.
   
Falzone noted, They say love is blind. What we also have to remember that love is ageless. You can find love at age 18, 32, 49 or older. Being uptight about not having found someone by a certain time in your life is not going to help."

Finding that special person that gives you what you need, takes three basic ingredients:

·   A positive attitude. No one really appreciates pessimism.
·   A realistic set of expectations. People cant be perfectly cookie cut" from a machine. Everyone has faults.
·   A willingness to give feedback and be open and honest. Give people a chance and the benefit of the doubt. Dont disregard the person for superficial reasons such as how they sound on the telephone.

Desperation is never attractive. Single women and men beyond their 30s who have spent many years carving a career may panic because they thought they would be settled down" with a partner and possibly children. One of the worst things folks can do to themselves is dwell on it. Its counterproductive and does more damage to the psyche than good. Take some kind of control -- as you did with your career. Be proactive with your personal life.

TRY TO RELAX
Falzone stresses that people need to relax and take each encounter as an adventure to enjoy. The worst-case scenario is that you end up with a friend who more than likely has other friends that you can meet.

But how can a person enjoy each encounter if theyre not meeting anyone? Simply getting out there" has a lot to do with meeting people. Keep busy. Join a club or activity that interests you; workout; get out and enjoy yourself. You can meet someone when you least expect it-at the supermarket, coffee shop, library, just about anyplace.

GET INTO CIRCULATION"
People underrate taking part in activities that interest them, when it is really the most likely place to meet other singles," said Falzone. If your routine involves getting through the workday, going straight home, microwaving a meal and catching the evening news on TV everyday, youre obviously not going to meet anyone. If you dont have a hobby or interest that gets you out of the house and into 'circulation, you should find one. Dont leave romance all to chance. Just get out there and have some fun."

Beware of online dating and chat rooms. A large percentage of people using online services misrepresent themselves in looks, age and marital status. If you do wish to use a personal introduction service, it is safer to stick to brick-and-mortar" dating services. Find a service that will work with through the process.

NO GAMES
There are no rules to dating, and there shouldnt be any games either. People shouldnt put on airs or pretend to be other than they are to try in an attempt to be liked or admired. Either theres compatibility or not. Theres no sense in wasting your own or someone elses time. Be upfront. If you cant share who you are, then how can you spend quality" time with another person? Be yourself from the start.
   
Love will eventually come knocking on your door.

Paul A. Falzone is CEO of The Right One and Together, the nations largest personal introduction services. Falzone is also author of the book, Finding The Right One," a $14.95 value that is available free of charge for a limited time from any The Right One or Together location in the United States. To find the location nearest you, or to order the book by phone (for a $3 shipping charge), please call (800) 818-DATE. For additional information, visit the companys informative Web sites at www.togetherdating.com and www.therightone.com).
   
FINDING LOVE FROM SEA TO SHINING SEA
The merger of The Right One with national franchises of Together created the world's largest introduction service. The alliance is a marriage of convenience for customers -- offering a more consistent product, a greater number of potentially compatible mates and more flexibility in transferring memberships to another geographic region.

Today, with an ambitious plan to open between 12-24 new offices a year, Together and The Right One have more than 125,000 members -- many of whom have their memberships on hold while they take the time to explore a successful relationship. With more than 500 employees, Together and The Right One gross more than $45-million a year in revenue.

ROMANTIC LOCATIONS
The Right One has offices and affiliates located throughout the United States, including: California (San Diego); Colorado (Colorado Springs, Denver); Florida (Boca, Tampa); Georgia (Atlanta); Hawaii (Honolulu); Illinois (Chicago, Springfield, Peoria, Rockford; Downers Grove and Bloomington); Iowa (Des Moines, Cedar Rapids and Bettendorf); Nebraska (Omaha and Lincoln); New Hampshire (Bedford); New Jersey (Cherry Hill, Hackensack); Massachusetts (Hingham, Chestnut Hill, Shrewsbury and Woburn); Pennsylvania (Philadelphia, Pittsburgh and Monroeville); Rhode Island (Warwick); Wisconsin (Madison, Appleton and Milwaukee); Texas (Dallas, Austin).

North American locations and affiliates of Together are: California (Encino, Irvine and Los Angeles); Florida (Palm Beach); Indiana (Ft. Wayne, Indianapolis, South Bend); Kansas (Wichita and Kansas City); Louisiana (New Orleans); Maryland (Columbia, Frederick); Minnesota (Minneapolis); Nevada (Reno); New Hampshire (Hooksett, Nashua, Portsmouth and Salem); New Jersey (Bridgewater, Clark, Colts Neck and Lawrenceville); Ohio (Cincinnati); Pennsylvania (Mechanicsburg and Doylestown); South Carolina (Greenville); South Dakota (Sioux Falls); Texas (Dallas, San Antonio, Beaumont and Houston) and Virginia (Falls Church).

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For interviews with the colorful and articulate Paul A. Falzone, CEO of The Right One® and Together® and author of a recent book on the history of dating, please contact Steve Dubin, PR Works, at (781) 878-9533 or, by e-mail, at sdubin@prworkzone.com.