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Are you one of the 42 million single dog owners in the US?
Tips for dog owners looking for love.
If you are, then you have a big part of your life in common with quite a few other people in this country. Here are a few ways to connect with some of them.
When you think about meeting someone, you may have an idea of your 'type'- the sort of person you would like to meet. Another thing to think about is what 'type' you are. Helping the people you meet to remember you is a part of marketing yourself. Gain control over the image you are projecting and you will never fall victim to someone's preconceptions.
One way to do this is to market yourself according to a personal interest. This will help you find some common ground on which to build a relationship. For example, if you use your pet as a part of your image, you are a good part of the way to making a connection with another animal lover.
Next, get comfortable with yourself.
Think about a few good stories you have about your dog, and get comfortable relaying them. This way, when you come across a person you are interested in talking to, you will have less trouble
initiating a conversation. You will also leave a memorable impression on the person you spoke to by having enthusiasm on a loved subject.
Actually meeting someone could happen at any time. Leaving your house could speed things up, however. Go to local places where folks walk their dogs or let them run, or to local dog-friendly business.If you dont happen to have your dog with you everywhere you go,
wear a shirt or tie or hat with a dog on it. This will not go unnoticed by fellow dog lovers, and it is a great way for them to start a conversation with you.
You may also be considering placing an online personals ad. If so, you would not be alone. According to journalist Christina Minor, many singles are turning to the modern matchmaking potential of the internet. She reports that the number of online dating services has skyrocketed in recent years. Online dating services allow a user to browse ads posted by people in their area and reply to those they are interested in.
Minor, Christina."Looking for Love: Alternative venues gain respectability" Bellingham Herald 2 Oct. 2003: C3
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