It Is What You Say. At A Time When Every Word Matters, Are You Saying the Right Thing the Right Way? Author of The Loving Dictionary Didnt Create New Words; She Created Proactive Ways To Use Words You Already Know.

Is it what you say or how you say it? How can words turn a negative into a positive? Why are we starving for positive words? Why do we fear the word NO! Are the problems in my life a result of what I say?

(PRWEB) July 27, 2003 -- Youve heard the saying, I know thats what I said, but thats not what I meant." Oh well, too late! Trent Lott, President George W. Bush, and many, many others have made public atrocities by saying the wrong thing, no matter what the intent. Once something is said, its on record. Its out there, waiting for people to filter the words and apply them to their own lives.

At a time when words are under a microscope, more than any time in history, do you recognize how your words and your message are shaping your relationships, business opportunities, your children, and your life?

According to author and speaker Marian York (The Loving Dictionary, 2002) there has never been more importance and weight given to what we say. The choice of words we use and how we use them has become central to how we advance in our jobs, how successful our relationships are, and how we are perceived by others in our life. If every word matters, and York insists thats true, then now has never been a better time to use the words you already know but may just not have the tools to use them more effectively and profoundly.

You Never Listen to me OR Please Give Me Your Attention!

The Scientific Basis Of Words And Their Effect On The Mind-Body System. Words are energy... electrochemical triggers, impulses that program the entire mind-body system. Every time we speak our words send powerful images to the brain and verbal commands to every cell in the body. Because the brain organizes itself around verbal experiences, our words literally shape our lives, from our health and self-esteem to our relationships and success.

The 3 Key WORDpower Expressions For Maximizing Resourcefulness. Address the defeating self-talk and labels that accompany our questions, mistakes and ideas. Teach yourself key words for keeping others open and receptive in negotiation or while giving correctional feedback.

Bridge Language and Baby Steps for Accelerating Change. Change requires building belief. Addressing the power of old beliefs and our resistance to change is imperative to proactive change. Bridge language supports the gradual building of new beliefs. From limiting beliefs of Im not...I cant to I am...I can. Baby steps teach people how to create achievable action steps for embracing change and reaching their goals.

Proactive WORDpower... Turning Complaints Into Solution. "What is it I DO want!" and "What can I DO to get it!". People must learn how to master their attitude and how to turn complaints into solutions; training people to identify and reframe commonly used negative expressions from every area of life. Learning to change what they DONT want...problems, lack of time and confusion...into what they DO want...solutions, ample time and clarity.

The Art Of Appreciation... Selling Yourself From The Inside Out. The Art of Appreciation teaches three elements of healthy self-esteem and nurtures the human potential by showing people how to identify and trust in all of their personal assets. It teaches people how to cultivate a mind set of success by learning how to graciously receive and express praise and appreciation.

Can listening, not talking, be one of the keys to success?

What can responsible commitments do to change our lives?
Can we control the negative people who surround us?
How can jealously and envy actually work for us?
Do mistakes give us an opportunity to achieve?

Whether you are a team leader, or just entering the workforce. Whether you have been married for years or are just beginning a relationship. Maybe its a knowing that what you say just isnt being heard, or what youre saying is being misinterpreted.

Whatever the reason, there is no one who is not driven to want more, be more, or have more. And in this ever dynamic world of words and a world full of measuring" can you believe that mere words can change your destiny? Not only can they, they do. Instead of saying its too good to be true" try, I deserve it/Id like to believe." It works! You have Marians word on it.

Marian York has been a successful entrepreneur for over 20 years. Her diverse background includes accounting, merchandising, sales and ten years as a professional spokeswoman for numerous Fortune 500 companies. Working across all industries, from politics and education to sales and sports, she customizes each program to her clients' needs. Her audiences call her a True Leader and Teacher.

And while she has been dubbed the Queen Of Esteem for her work with building personal empowerment, her vibrant energy has also won her the affectionate title of the James Brown Of Training. Founder of The WORDpower Institute Northwest, Marian is author of The Loving Dictionary and the popular WORDpower For Success And Change audio programs.

She has also authored numerous articles available at www.mywordpower.com/articles.

To contact Marian please call 206-526-5223.