10 Ways to Find Time for Your Lover

Time Management expert shares tips for creating more time in your life by increased productivity - which will create more time to do the things you WANT to do.

Atlanta, GA (PRWEB) February 8, 2004 --Valentines Day is the time when feelings of affection and intimacy are high. But for you, has Valentines Day ever become a time to apologize for neglect? Has it ever been a time to make up for lost opportunities of closeness with the one you love?

Couples in long term relationships have a habit of taking each other for granted which makes Valentines Day a good time to refocus on the importance of each other.

I frequently have seminar participants tell me they are so busy just getting tactical items done for work, that their personal relationships are way down on the list," says time management expert, Karla Brandau, president of Time For Results.

I look the participants in the eye say, 'If you think your boss will be there for you when you are 85, stand up. The room fills with laughter as the point is made. People start reassessing their priorities and start putting relationships in their proper place," says Brandau.

The principle Brandau teaches is that jobs provide a measure of self-esteem and the money to buy the necessities along with the niceties of life, but sharing those with someone you love is what makes work worthwhile.

If you are caught in the work rat race and have a hard time finding time for your lover, try these tips:

-Put anniversaries and birthdays into your calendar in Outlook, your PDA, or any other electronic devise with automatic reminders built in. Allow time to select the appropriate gift by setting the reminder for 1 week in advance of the actual date.
-Make do something" for your lover a To-Do" list item.
-Block time out during lunch for a telephone call to the one you love.
-If you make a commitment to go to a function with your special one, dont break the commitment.
-Dont take your time together on weekends for granted. Plan something special neither of you will want to miss: a trip to the museum, the park, a movie, the zoo, the beach...
-Include your lover in routine activities but do the routine activities in a playful mood.
-When you are together, be there -- mentally as well as physically.
-Hire people to give you more time to share love. There are great time benefits to hiring help with yard work, house cleaning, dog walking, buying gifts, calling Mom, etc.
-Use the reverse scheduling technique: plan when you need to leave work to have time for your lover. Estimate the time it will take to do each item on your to do list, then plot your time backwards from the time you want to leave work.
-Remember to close the door on your professional life when you leave work. Open the door to your personal relationships: enjoy the time with your lover.

Time Management expert Karla Brandau can be reached at 770-923-0883 or at karla@timeforresults.com. Visit her web site at www.timeforresults.com to sign up for her monthly newsletter: Tactical Time Management Tips for Professionals in the Trenches.