Seven Inexplicable Things Customers Do

Customer service tips for anyone in business: retail, managers, customer service reps, entrepreneurs, small business or major corporations.

(PRWEB) October 5, 2004 -- Seven Inexplicable Things Customers Do and What to Do About Them By Andra Medea

Ever feel like customers are out to drive you crazy? It may not be personal. As customers get upset their thinking malfunctions, as too much adrenaline floods the brain. In short, that baffling behavior isnt character, its chemical. This is what happens:

They dont follow simple directions. Under a flood of adrenaline, the brain loses its ability to do sequence. That means steps one, two and three can become a hopeless jumble. If you tell them to walk down the hall, take a right and go in the green door they may get lost at the first turn. Go with them and show them the way.

They snap at you when youre only trying to help. Flooding people are edgy and get hostile around jargon or unfamiliar words. Think of the last time you had a computer problem and the techie started spouting geek. Wanted to kill him, right? Keep your words short and simple.

They ignore signs and directions right under their noses. With too much adrenaline the brain loses its ability to pick out key objects. Youve done this yourself. Youre dashing out the door and suddenly you cant find your keys. You tear the place apart only to realize theyre sitting right in front of you. This is how a customer manages to not see the warning on the back of the box, or the sign in plain English posted in the hall. Just point it out and theyll be fine.

They ramble on and bring in every problem since the Reagan administration. Its the problem with sequence again. They can no longer tell whats on topic and whats off. Youll need to walk them through it: Ask What happened first?" What happened next?" As they step through the sequence theyre likely to grow coherent again.

They dont listen to a thing you say. Flooding people lose their ability to hear new information. Theyre not ignoring you; that part of the brain gets disconnected and they literally cant take in your words. Talk slowly and calmly to help them come down. Draw them a simple map or diagram while talking them through the stages. If they cant remember what you said at least they can look at the map.

They argue even when you agree with them. Remember, they may not be able to hear what you said. You could offer them a free trip to China- it wont matter if they cant hear you. Instead ask simple sequence questions until they calm down. Then make your offer and theyll probably accept.

They make you as frazzled as they are. Flooding is contagious. That means even as theyre telling that rambling story, youre losing your ability to listen to it. However, calm is also contagious. Keep breathing, keep your voice low and steady, and you can bring them around to you.

Andra Medea is the author of Conflict Unraveled: Fixing Problems at Work and in Families.

She developed this remarkable system while teaching at Northwestern University and the University of Chicago. Articles about her have appeared in the Washington Post, Chicago Tribune and Seattle Times.

She has appeared as a repeat guest on WGN radio and NPRs WorldView.

"You could read ten best-sellers by overpaid CEOs and not get half as much wisdom on human resources management..." -- Fearless Book Reviews.

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