Tucson, AZ (PRWEB) May 10, 2005
Aiming to improve marital success, Psychologist Dr. Kevin Leman unveiled today a free online Personality Compatibility Test. The resulting 16-page printout provides a unique way of revealing one's personality strengths, what Leman calls "the foundational interpersonal context for lasting, fulfilling relationships."
Leman gained national attention with his first best-selling title, "The Birth Order Book." Since then he has authored over 25 books on practical approaches for building lasting relationships. Leman's books, biography, and speaking calendar can be found at http://www.drleman.com.
If you follow Leman's advice, asking a date his or her birth order before allowing "chemistry" to take over may be the most important part of the courting process. Why? Because the same issues and conflicts that cause sibling rivalry in early life will lead to marital success or failure as adults. Leman says, "Don't bet your life (quite literally) on a storm of physical attraction. Every giddy couple is sure the bliss will never end, but about 50% of the time it does end, leaving both parties (and often the children and extended families as well) in an emotional wreck that continues for a lifetime."
Leman's free Compatibility Test (coupled with his online dating site MatchWise.com) has as its main goal the prevention of marital mistakes through the psychology of birth order. Well-documented evidence suggests that birth order influences the way we relate to others throughout our lives - especially how we relate to the opposite sex. "Once these characteristics are revealed, anyone can see how his or her personality strengths and patterns can lead to the best choice for a lasting lifetime relationship," says Leman.
"We'll show you that the best marital match isn't with someone just like you," says Leman. "If each of you is too similar in personality and conflict skills, you're likely to have more difficulty, not less. For an 'ideal' match, you'll want some things in common; but deep in your in personality and underlying motivations (both being rooted in birth order) the best matches are complete opposites!"
The free compatibility test and free registration to the MatchWise service can be found at http://www.matchwise.com. Leman named the website "Matchwise.com," desiring the powerful matching tools and teaching he provides therein to lead Christian singles to a wise marital match, one that will last a lifetime.
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