The Chronically Ill are Tired of Casseroles: New Book Shares 505 Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend
Call me if you need anything..." Most of us have said this because we didnt know what else to say. We care, but how do we show it? Does a casserole really encourage someone? Why dont people ever call? If you have ever picked up the phone to call someone who is ill and had a wave of fear wash over you (what do I say?) this book is for you!
(PRWEB) June 16, 2005 -- Nearly one in two Americans has a chronic condition* and most of us whip up a casserole and deliver it. But then what? This book provides 505 ways to reach out to someone. For example: Allow her to talk about her feelings when she needs to, even if it changes the schedule of the fun that you had planned.
When he says Im fine" say, No, I mean, how are you really? I know what find means," and smile... If you plan to go somewhere, dont try to outdo her in your outfit. She may be grieving the loss of her previous appearance and what she was able to wear (like normal shoes).
Also included are quotes about friendship and a joy (Just Offering You…) coupon to give to a friend to make asking for help a little easier for someone in need.
As a pastors wife with five chronic illnesses I wholeheartedly recommend Copens book from the dual perspectives of ministry and one who lives with pain and illness every day," says Donna Toxey of Opelika, AL. Ministry to the chronically ill has sorely been overlooked by our churches. This book needs to be in every pastors study and every church library. If you would like to learn how to minister to a friend or how your church can touch the life of someone who is truly in need of God touch, this book should be #1 on your to-read list! It is full of practical ways you can put ‘feet on your prayers on an ongoing basis."
Author, Lisa Copen, who has lived with rheumatoid arthritis since 1993 says, there is not a lack of caring and our communities, but there can be a lack of communication. People dont know how to reach out and so they procrastinate. Those who are ill often feel lonely and forgotten. I hope that this book provides some tools to help everyone be able to improve their ability to express their compassion and concern."
Interesting Fact: National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week, Sept 12-18, 2005, is sponsored by Rest Ministries, the publisher of this book. Find out more at www.invisibleillness.com.
Book Info: Beyond Casseroles: 505 Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend; Author: Lisa Copen; dimensions: 4.25 x 7 in.; 94 pages; Rest Ministries Publishers 2005; ISBN 0-9716600-6-9. http://www.restministries.org
Order Info: The book retails for $4.50 each or three for $10 plus $3 shipping. Bulk discounts are available. Order via phone, web site, or mail: 888-751-7378, www.comfortzonebooks.com, or PO Box 502928, San Diego, CA 92150. Visa/MC or check to Rest Ministries.
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