Secrets of the Universe Show Up on the First Date
Why women know more than men and keep it a secret.
HOUSTON, TX (PRWEB) April 28, 2005 -- ‘Absolute Intelligence,’ the new book by Ilexa Yardley, shows the cliché about relationships – opposites attract—is much more than just a cliché. It’s the secret of the universe showing up on the first date (and all the way through the rest of the relationship). Her book hit number 5 on Amazon.com’s Early Adapter E-book list in its first week out, proving people are definitely interested in how specific relationships (lines) are related to relationships in general (circles).
The Key to Relationships? Do the Math (and the Physics)
“Opposites attract, and then repel, is Conservation of the Circle at work,” Yardley says. “Often, we think about relationships in terms of emotions or psychology – love, hate, joy, sadness, passion, anger. But emotions, like everything else, occur in opposite pairs demonstrating that it’s physics, mathematics and the circle driving relationship dynamics, and not psychology.”
Conservation of the Circle, Galileo, Relationships
Yardley integrated the work of Einstein, Jung, Newton and Emily Noether, to come up with the principle that the circle survives, is preserved, overrides and underlies everything, and can never be destroyed (just like Einstein’s energy). Yardley says Conservation of the Circle is the most important discovery since Galileo because it totally reorients our perspective from the size and position of circles to their dynamics (form vs. substance). “The sun and earth are circles rotating and revolving around each other (as are men and women), independent of mass.”
Forget Mars and Venus – Look at Lines and Circles
Yardley says the circle removes the mystery about the ‘chemistry’ in relationships: “A circle is a set of opposite points (straight lines) that create a circumference (circular line). Women are circles hiding lines, men are lines hiding circles, and women and men change places (they play either the circular or linear role). But it’s the circle and the line and not the man and the woman (or man and man, or woman and woman) that is connecting.”
Pi The Glue Behind Couples
The circle and line are a pair, like all other pairs in the universe (Einstein’s energy and mass, Jung’s anima and animus, Newton’s equal and opposite actions). Because all entities are in pairs, or all universes are symmetric, and because Emmy Noether proved symmetry and conservation are inextricably linked, all things are circles. Because a universe of symmetries (any universe) is always a circle (no matter what the substance or process), everything is totally dependent on (and connected by) pi.
Pi The Jester or Hidden Connector
Pi can be thought of as the hidden jester in all relationships. Pi connects lines and circles, and produces the ‘feeling’ we get when we meet each other about what kind of circle the two of us can make. “The relationship between female, male and jester, or circumference, diameter and pi, explains everything about everything,” says Yardley. “When we say women are superior, we are really saying that over time it’s the circle in control (not the line).” Both men and women have a feminine (circular) side. Circles and lines cannot be separated, ever.
Love and Commitment a Circle
As any married couple can tell you, surviving relationships requires commitment and not necessarily love (pi cementing the line to its circle). Over time, commitment and love become the same thing: two perfectly concentric, mental circles, shared by two people, independent of what is happening either inside or outside their circle, completely joined into one.
Perspective and Choice Come from the Circle
People who continue in committed relationships understand circles are nothing more than infinite sets of opposites, and they accept both sides of every pair (they take the good with the bad), keeping their focus on the overriding circle and not any one point within it. Each person has drawn the same ‘circle’ in his or her mind. When relationships fall apart it’s always because one person (or line) has decided to draw a new circle. This dynamic works in universes exactly as it does in relationships.
Your Relationship the Universe
So, according to Yardley, if you understand the circular dynamics in your love relationship, you also understand the dynamics of the universe: “Because it’s the circle conserving itself, one thing is analogous to another, or things are symbolic of each other, and what we are doing with each other in relationships, planets and stars, molecules and atoms, and protons and neutrons are doing as well.” Yardley says scientists, religious leaders and every one of us needs to read ‘Absolute Intelligence’ so we can rethink the circle: “It’s all right there on the first date. We’re meeting at Starbucks to hook up, hold the universe together and teach each other about physics and math. We think it’s all about us, but actually we’re just conserving a circle.”
See www.absolute-intelligence.com and The Philosophical Date for more information.
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