Why You Could be the Next Clara Harris

There are 26 million potential Clara Harrises out there - wives with cheating husbands who have no idea their husbands are having an affair. Oprahs interview with Clara highlights how any wife who finds herself in similar circumstances, could overreact or lose control the way Clara Harris did.

(PRWEB) May 2, 2005 -- Any woman who has ever been cheated on could identify with Clara Harris, as they watched Oprahs recent interview with her. Clara told Oprah her side of the story in an exclusive interview at the Mountain View Unit in Gatesville, Texas where she is currently serving time. The shock of seeing her husband leaving a hotel with his mistress after he led her to believe he was ending his affair, pushed Clara Harris over the edge. Following a physical altercation with Davids mistress, Clara ran over her husband, killing him in the hotel parking lot.

26 Million Potential Clara Harrises
There are an estimated 26 million potential Clara Harrises out there - wives with cheating husbands who have no idea their husbands are having an affair. says Ruth Houston, infidelity expert and author of Is He Cheating on You? -- 829 Telltale Signs. Any woman who without warning, finds herself thrust into a similar situation, could lose control the way Clara Harris did."

Where matters of the heart are concerned, its so easy to lose control." says Houston, whose website http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com offers practical advice for women with cheating husbands. Infidelity is a highly emotionally charged situation in which people commonly overreact."    

Could You Be the Next Clara Harris? According to Houston, you could be the next Clara Harris if:
• youre in a happy marriage and it never occurred to you that your husband could have an affair.
• you know your husband would never cheat on you because youre beautiful, sexy, a good wife, devoted mother, passionate lover - or fill in whatever reason you think would keep your husband from having an affair.
• you dont know how to recognize the early warning signs of an affair.
• youre certain you would recognize the obvious signs of infidelity, but dont know how to spot the many subtle signs.
• youve never seriously considered how youd handle the situation if your husband actually had an affair.
• youd have no idea what to do if you found out another woman posed a serious threat to your marriage.
• you dont know what NOT to do or what mistakes to avoid if you discovered your husband was having an affair.
• you dont know the proper steps to take if you suspect your husband could be having an affair.
• youre not sure how youd react if you discovered your husband was having an affair.
• you dont have an relationship reference book in your home that can help you identify the signs of infidelity.

The Clara Harris Quiz
Studies tell us that infidelity affects 80% of all marriages today." says Houston. Although extramarital affairs typically develop in stages, they usually take most women by surprise." Houston, an infidelity expert, who was once a victim of infidelity herself, has compiled 18 probing questions for wives to ask themselves about infidelity and extramarital affairs. Houston calls this questionnaire The Clara Harris Quiz."

These questions force a woman to take a long hard look at herself and her marriage. The answers may reveal more than a woman really wants to know, but they can help a woman see where her weak spots are and how vulnerable she is," says Houston. If Clara Harris had taken this quiz before learning of her husbands affair, she would have answered no to almost every question." NOTE: the quiz is available by e-mail to any woman who requests it. See below.

Consider the Implication of Each Question

Houston encourages women to answer each question in the quiz with an honest Yes or No, and to consider what each question implies. She warns If a youre uncomfortable with the questions, or find the answers disturbing, thats a definite danger sign. Your potential for becoming the next Clara Harris increases with every No answer you give. Each No puts you deeper in the danger zone."

Based on the current statistics, the majority of women are likely to become victims of infidelity at some point in their lives. The purpose of the Clara Harris Quiz", says Houston, is to highlight a womans vulnerable areas so she can work on turning those Nos into Yes. By considering the possibilities, if infidelity should ever strike, you can avoid becoming the next Clara Harris."

Get a free copy of the Clara Harris Quiz
Women can request a free copy of The Clara Harris Quiz" by sending an e-mail to InfidelityInfo@gmail.com (InfidelityInfo at gmail.com) with Clara Harris Quiz" in the subject line.

About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the author of Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs. Based on 10 years of in-depth research, this comprehensive guide documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Ruths website http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com provides practical advice on all aspects of infidelity. Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, the Toronto Sun, the New York Post, the Christian Science Monitor, Cosmopolitan, First magazine, iVillage, MSN Lifestyle, AOL Black Voices and numerous others. She has been a guest on Good Day New York, TalkAmerica, Telemundo, BBC, 1010WINS and over 150 other radio and TV talk shows in the US, Europe, South America, and the Caribbean. Ruth also conducts infidelity seminars and does personal infidelity consultations.

To interview Ruth Houston on infidelity, cheating husbands, or the Clara Harris case, contact her directly at 718 592-6039 or e-mail her at InfidelityExpert@gmail.com (InfidelityExpert at gmail.com ) Please visit the PRESS ROOM at http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com for background information.

About the Book:
Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs documents practically every known sign of infidelity. It can be ordered directly from the website http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com , from the toll free number 1-800-431-1579, or from Amazon.com.

Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs is also available as an e-book from www.Booklocker.com

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