Why Finding the Right Partner is Tough: the Wrong Partner is the Right One
Opposition: our conflicts define us. Ilexa Yardley's 'Absolute Intelligence' shows Conservation of the Circle is in control of all relationships - the circle forces us to argue.
Houston, TX (PRWEB) May 21, 2005 -- According to Infoplease, 49% of the marriages in the United States end in divorce. In Russia, the number is 65%; in Norway 35%. Opposites attract (until they touch) and then they repel, and in this one sentence is the key to all relationships, according to Ilexa Yardley, author of ‘Absolute Intelligence’ – available on Amazon.com. “Finding the right partner is tough because the wrong partner is the right one.” What does she mean?
Circle Conserves Relationships
Yardley articulates the scientific, mathematical and philosophical principal of Conservation of the Circle in her book, ‘Absolute Intelligence,’ a discovery she claims goes back to and eclipses Galileo because it moves our attention away from mass and movement onto form. “The circle conserving itself is at the heart of all relationships, and not the size or speed or behavior of any one entity,” she claims. Yardley says the important thing to notice as far as planets, universes and people are concerned, is they occur in opposite pairs, rotating and revolving around each other, and because the circle is conserving itself, people and planets go through the exact same motions.
Opposites Attract and Change Places
“Everyone plays the sun and the earth at different points in a relationship, or, as she shows in her book, one shines while the other reflects. Over time, the reflecting one will want to shine, forcing the shining one to reflect, and if the two are not in synch, or in agreement about switching, they must repel, or break apart. This changing of places happens in every aspect of the relationship. They cannot stop the circle.
Opposing Views Create Circles
Conservation of the Circle is the elusive ‘something’ physicists, mathematicians, psychologists, and religious ‘experts’ have been looking for Yardley says. Every circle is a set of arguments or points of opposition easily illustrated by thinking about four people at four different positions at the top of a lighthouse. North sees south, south sees north, east sees west, west sees east, but none can see the exact same view. Opposing views create circles.
Circles Create Opposing Views
“People behave the way the circle wants them to, and not the other way around,” says Yardley. Watching people get into an elevator cab illustrates this, she says. “People always try to evenly distribute themselves in the space of an elevator cab, and will move to an opposite position as more and more people get in.” People do this in conversation, as well, listening just long enough to state the opposite of what’s being stated. Circles create opposing views.
Our Conflicts Define Us
“It is no accident the divorce rate is 49-51%,” says Yardley. “In the normal course of events everything moves to 49-51% eventually because of the circle, and another way to look at divorce is 49-51% of all marriages work.” Because of the absolutely intelligent circle, over time all things are balanced. Balance means 49-51 and not 100-0. So every circle goes through the relationship exercise of adjusting down or up to 50%, or else relegates itself to going it alone. No matter what, 49-51% will eventually go it alone.
Learning to Live with Someone You Cannot Stand
Because the circle’s in control, people force each other into opposing positions. “This is actually meant to be a helpful mechanism,” Yardley says. “By taking the opposite position, you are helping your partner to see what he or she cannot see. The physics inside the relationship forces two people to move apart so they can stay together.” So it all boils down to the right partner turns wrong over time, and the wrong partner turns right, and no matter what we do, we cannot avoid the opposite. “Holding onto any relationship over time means learning to live with someone you absolutely cannot stand (sometimes).” This is the circle in control.
See www.absolute-intelligence.com for more information.
PopularPhilosophy.com explores and addresses the relationship between science, psychology and philosophy (religion), to show the circle is the 'absolute intelligence' or 'theory of everything' these disciplines articulate.
'Absolute Intelligence' describes the scientific, mathematical and philosophical principle of Conservation of the Circle, the fact the circle survives, and is a part of, and in control of, everything.
Opposite ApproachTM is a methodology that shows people how to capitalize on this circular reality.
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Susan Moore
775-414-7403
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