Some Conversations With Aging Parents Tough - But Necessary
As much as we want them to remain independent, life events may require difficult life quality decisions.
San Rafael, CA (PRWEB) November 1, 2006 -- Whether you've become increasingly concerned about subtle changes that have made their lives unmanageable or they endured a sudden medical setback, you may need to discuss some tough but necessary decisions with elderly parents.
In his featured article published on Parent Care, eldercare communications expert David Solie shares insights on what for many is an almost impossible task. He advises that seniors' progeny may observe a variety of issues ranging from unsafe driving to near accidents at home to poor compliance with medical treatment. Progeny may know that intervention is needed but feel helpless in engaging parents. Solie provides communications strategies that can facilitate discussions and achieve desired outcomes while preserving parents' sense of control.
Acknowledging parent's need for control while recasting a seemingly unmanageable situation is a necessary first step according to Solie. Clearly communicating that a parent's desires are understood and that parents facilitate the decision making can lead to faster and more enduring results.
Featured throughout November, Solie's article presents a range of challenging situations many caregivers face and offers approaches to resolutions that may elude most.
Mr. Solie is the medical director for Marsh Private Client Services in Woodland Hills, California. He is also the author of How To Say It to Seniors: Closing the Communication Gap with Our Elders. A noted speaker, Solie frequently addresses audiences at Fortune 500 companies, major universities and geriatric planning conferences.
"Mr. Solie's message is most appropriate for National Caregiver's Month," stated Parent Care CEO William Gillis. "It will be especially valuable to long distance caregivers who aren't able to visit their folks frequently and may encounter new situations that require tactful intervention during holiday visits."
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