Los Angeles, CA (PRWEB) January 18, 2007
Valentine's Day is just around the corner. You have been in a relationship with a man for a while, but he hasn't been committed to you. You might wonder about him: "Is he going to commit to me on Valentine's Day?" "Is he going to propose on Valentine's Day?"
"Valentine's Day is actually the best day to break up with a partner if the relationship isn't going anywhere," says Py Kim Conant, the author of "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man" (Hunter House). Conant adapted the Geisha's centuries-old feminine wisdom and practices to 21st century women who want to be in love and married. "My advice is politically incorrect, but it is always practically correct," comments Conant.
Here are the top 27 Valentine's Day tips to make your man desire you more:
1.tBuild a small shrine to his manhood for his Valentine's Day present
2.tBe more feminine, beautiful, and sexy to get you a commitment.
3.tDon't give away sex until you at least get a commitment to seeing only each other.
4.tBe nice to get him to commit
5.tBe a Good Woman
6.tMake him feel good as a man
7.tDon't manipulate him
8.tLet him know your life goals (including marriage and kids, if so).
9.tThe more commitment from him (engaged, married), the more committed sex from you.
10.tSet a deadline if necessary
11.tGive away credit for your sexual pleasure to him
12.tSay special things ("I love how your manhood makes me come")
13.tBe direct with him; men don't pick up on hints well.
14.t Learn to female ejaculate, then teach how to make you "shoot."
15.tUnderstand what men want from women (sex with enthusiasm, respect, and appreciation)
16.tFind what makes him happy.
17.tTell him you'll never lie to him; then don't
18.tNegotiate with him: "I'll do all the cooking, if you'll do all the cleaning. Renegotiate if one becomes dissatisfied.
19.tBe conscious of what's going on in the relationship with him
20.tDiscuss your relationship at least twice a month; don't let "things" build up
21.tLet him know that the deeper his commitment the more free and totally involved you are sexually
22.tLet him know your fundamental needs (marriage, a happy loving relationship, good sex) in your life and that for a happy, long-term relationship he has to help you to meet your fundamental needs: again be very direct
23.tLet him know you want to be beautiful, feminine, and sexy for him, that he inspires you to be your most attractive for him
24.tPraise him and his manhood; let him be your hero; appreciate what he does for you (all without wanting something in return for the praise).
25.tNever refuse to give sex. If unable to have sex, make a date for the near future. And be enthusiastic!
26.tInspire him to treat you well.
27.tDo all or much of the above and he will marry you, never leave, and consider himself the luckiest man alive to have found you!
Py Kim Conant is the author of Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man (Hunter House) and has published three books in Korean and has written a bi-weekly column for the Korea Daily in Southern California. Conant has appeared on radio shows nationally and has been featured in Real Simple and East West magazines, as well as in the Los Angeles Times. Conant teaches a class on "Get Married in a Year" for the Learning Annex and lives in Los Angeles with her happy husband, Richard. Conant's website: http://www.AmericanGeishaHouse.com