Hale Dwoskin, Featured Expert in #1 Mega-Bestseller 'The Secret,' Announces How to Lose Gracefully -- and Why Losing Well is Essential to Your Success
Hale Dwoskin, featured teacher in the #1 bestseller "The Secret" and founder of The Sedona Method, has just announced how to lose gracefully, and why losing well is essential to one's success.
Sedona, AZ (PRWEB) November 7, 2007 -- Hale Dwoskin, founder of The Sedona Method and a featured teacher in the #1 blockbuster bestselling book and movie, "The Secret," discusses how to lose gracefully - and why losing well is essential to one's success.
Nobody likes to lose, yet in every competitive situation, someone will.
Perhaps it's the next promotion at work, or the woman that both best friends have their eye on. Even small things, like who gets the last piece of pizza, have an air of winning and losing to them.
Assuming one as the "loser," all of these situations present a choice. A person can either be a sore loser or they can lose gracefully. Sore losers get angry. They blame their loss on the opponent, not taking responsibility for their own actions. Sore losers hold on to resentment, and may internalize their failure, leading to low self-esteem or even depression.
Graceful losers are quite the opposite. They congratulate their opponent, embrace their failure and get to work on figuring out where they went wrong. Graceful losers do not take failure personally, but they do accept responsibility. They learn from the loss, then apply what they've learned so that next time, they may win.
The Difference Between Sore Losers and Gracious Losers
Everyone has failed at some point in their life. This is nothing exceptional. However, it's what one does with that failure that makes all the difference. Losing gracefully is the first step to moving forward, past the loss. In fact, graceful losers are hardly impacted by the loss at all, because they know another opportunity awaits them.
Perhaps the biggest risk of being a sore loser is this loss of hope for the future. A sore loser is stuck on the loss, and in so being, may miss out on a new opportunity, or be passed by for one because of their poor attitude.
Of course, making lemonade out of life's lemons is not always easy. In fact, it can be downright hard. But it is a principle worth living life by, and teaching the children to live theirs by as well.
How can someone lose gracefully, even when they really, really wanted to win? By using The Sedona Method to realize something great: one can never really lose.
In fact, once a person learns how to release the feelings they have about losing -- the anger, the embarrassment, the resentment -- they will always feel successful. And then a funny thing will happen. When one FEELS successful, they will ACT successful, and then, sure enough, they will BE successful.
"As you let go of the feelings that cause the sensation of loss you discover that you never really lose anything," says Hale Dwoskin, CEO and director of training of Sedona Training Associates.
"The objects in your life are always changing, but what you are at your core is changeless," Dwoskin continues.
The more a person releases on the fears and negativity they have about winning and losing, the easier it will be to accept things that do happen. When one loses, they will then be able to do so gracefully, and when there is a win, they'll be a gracious winner.
"By releasing you identify more with the changeless and allow the comings and goings of your life to simply happen as they do," Dwoskin says. "This gives great relief and also allows you to be present with and for the new opportunities that are here every moment."
Right now everyone can get the free Insiders Guide to The Sedona Method email course sampler by inputting just their name and email in the sidebar on the right at http://www.sedona.com/losegracefully.aspx
For more insights on the topic of releasing, Hale Dwoskin, New York Times Best-Selling author of The Sedona Method, featured expert in the film and New York Times bestseller "The Secret," and CEO and Director of Training of Sedona Training Associates, is available for interviews. Sedona Training Associates is an organization that teaches courses based on the emotional releasing techniques originated by Hale Dwoskin's mentor, Lester Levenson. Dwoskin is an international speaker and featured faculty member at Esalen and the Omega Institute. For over a quarter century, he has regularly been teaching The Sedona Method techniques to individuals and corporations throughout the United States, Canada and the United Kingdom. Visit www.Sedona.com.
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