Familiarize yourself with the Cheating Techniques of the 21st Century

It's All Just A Game by S. Bartholomew explores the do's and the don'ts on relationships. Know when to confront your opponent, or when to call that other woman or when and if it's justifiable to fight over your mate. Read a little about the ex who just can't seem to move on. The author breaks down the concept of cheating, the roles of the players and the undeniable challenge of keeping the relationship going.

Brooklyn, NY (PRWEB) April 9, 2008 -- Nowadays, it seems like more and more people are adding themselves to the "cheaters list," which means that the "cheated on list" is also growing. But you know what's worst than a cheater; A cheater who has no remorse. Politicians, who we so dearly look up to do it and celebrities who we admire do it. I guess because in reality, they are no different than the average citizens or are they? But, regardless, of who you really are and what your intimate secret may be, just remember there is always someone curious to open up your closet. Your secret will not be hidden forever. Recently one of our politician's found out the hard way. It's All Just A Game is for readers out there who are CURIOUS about the biggest chemistry of all: Relationships? My insights are written to enlighten your mind of the tricks, the lies, and the overall game strategy of the players: the cheaters and the cheater catchers. The short stories are filled with re-occurring relationship drama that women and men seem to always find themselves getting involved with time and time again along with erotic tales that gets you reminiscing about your most exiting time and place of romance.

Tell me, what is it you men and women get out of cheating? And don't tell me it's the joy of "having both your cake and eating it too."

I think it's more than that. Correct me if I'm wrong; but isn't it a hassle to keep that other woman or man a secret from your mate? You know: the sneaking around, lying to your mate about where you've been or who you've been with. We all know the usual excuse "I'm working late." What about making those secret telephone calls? You know- the kind where you quickly hang up or change the conversation when your mate walks in on you. How about when your mate accuses you of cheating? Don't you get nervous and then try your best to convince him/her that you are faithful knowing to yourself that you are as guilty as can be? Doesn't the guilt sometimes have you stressed and confused?

Cheating is a challenge. It's like a second job. With all the lying and sneaking around that's involved, it leaves the cheater constantly thinking, planning, preparing for the unexpected or the "what ifs." Cheating can be emotionally, physically as well as mentally draining. So, what exactly is it about cheating that appeal to so many people? I mean, it's on the top of the list when it comes to why most relationships don't last and to why many marriages fail. It is an act that has people going in circles as if they are playing a game.

It's a known fact that relationships can be tough. There's talk about the constant nagging, stress, too much or not enough space, frequent arguments, mood swings, accusations, not spending enough time or not being there. But, whatever the complaint may be in a relationship, the question is: is it enough to drive you or your mate to cheat and in some cases repeatedly? The answer is YES.

If you've read this far, you're probably saying to yourself "there are so many books out there on relationships...what makes this one different?" Well, it's written by someone who has, many times, unknowingly and other times purposely made herself a part of the game. And great advice or inquisitive information is often times given from those who have actually experienced the realms of their subject/topic. And you know what; the books that I've enjoyed reading are the ones that got me shaking my head in agreement or speaking out loud during those long train rides to work saying to myself (and everyone else)… "that is so true" simply because I shared a similar experience with the author or the character or know someone who has. And please note: this book is not only for the ladies. It is geared to intrigue the men too.

Read an excerpt / Purchase: It's All Just A Game By S. Bartholomew on www.Amazon.com or www.bbotw.com.

Contact author @ Urbanlovetales@gmail.com

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