Orlando, FL (PRWEB) July 4, 2008
The term "an elephant in the room" refers to a situation where an issue or truth is being ignored or unaddressed. Fortunately, Donovan Davis is equipping families with the tools to address the elephant in the room. Donovan believes that it starts with respecting our children.
The truth is when kids have idle time and make the leap from elementary school to junior high, their exposure to negative behavior and drugs increases dramatically. Recent studies reveal that 1 in 13 sixth graders have smoked marijuana. The figure jumps to an even more alarming 1 in 5 by the seventh grade. This is an increase of nearly 300 percent.elf esteem is crucial to there social development.
While many parents have had "the talk" with their teenagers, others have yet to discuss the dangers of drugs with their teens. As a parent, you do make a difference in your child's decision about the right choices throughout the teenage years and their self esteem is crucial to there social development. For the summer parents, your children may be confronted daily with decisions about negative behavior or drug use.
Let's look at the definition of self esteem: it is the ability to feel good about ourselves whether or not we are always. Successful it is a feeling of satisfaction we experience after our needs are met. We as parents can help build our children's self-esteem by telling them positive things about themselves. Additionally, we must praise them for good decisions, small deeds and great initiatives.
Since most teenagers have a strong desire to conform to their peer groups, parents are encouraged to help build their self esteem and to control the friends that surround them. If the adolescent is hanging out with a group of teens that are involved in sports, and then meets someone who is into drugs, his opinion of that teen will most likely be "he is stupid." Why?
Partly because he will embrace the opinion of the teens closest to him. The problem is that the reverse is also true. What then does this mean for parents of idle teens?
I provide Life Coaching services, and I work with families daily to address their adolescent decision making process. During my time as a teacher and administrator I have learned different strategies on how to build self esteem in individuals. I also have listed the different strategies for parents on how to build self esteem in their children in my book "The Blueprint of Parenting". As a teacher I enjoyed teaching our future, but I quickly realized that most teachers have no idea the warning signs of possible illicit drug exposure. I made sure I listed different drug diagnosis in my book "The Blueprint of a Successful Classroom", for teachers to be able to recognize the symptoms of drug use and other mental health disorders within the classroom.
Every parent has great expectations for there children and it is the goal of all parents to raise wonderful children. In my book "The Blueprint to and through College", I give positive advise for high school seniors and college freshmen on vital decisions that they must make for a successful future. In the world we live in, we must protect our children from negative influences that could alter their future and affect their possibility of success. Illicit drugs affect all of us and in my book "The Blueprint of Recovery", I site the stories of addicts and there journey through addiction.
Lastly, parents must acknowledge their child's potential. If a parent does not speak of the child's unlimited possibilities, their child may become susceptible to negative peer feedback. Henceforth, sending them into an unsuspecting path of poor decisions and negative consequences. As parents, it is our responsibility to assist our children in feeling good about themselves.
Donovan Davis is the founder of askdonovandavis.com, a Social Service Agency, dedicated to raise humanity's awareness, acceptance and understanding of our changing world through his books series entitled "Blueprint". Donovan Davis can be reached at 888.264.6168 or via email [email protected]