I grew up painfully shy and introverted, lacking social confidence. I didn't know how to approach women or even talk to them without being overcome with anxiety. To help me change my dating reality, I read extensively on the subject, consulted experts, attended seminars, tried what I had learned and then refined what worked, until it became my 28-day program.
Miami, FL (PRWEB) January 13, 2009
THE DATING MATRIX (http://www.thedatingmatrix.com), by successful international romance consultant, Eric Ivy, teaches romantically impaired men the verbal and non-verbal skills essential to approaching, communicating with, dating and maintaining relationships with women they find attractive. It is a comprehensive 28-day, step-by-step manual for overcoming social anxiety, with a companion online program that Ivy has successfully offered at http://www.thedatingmatrix.com, with a money-back guarantee.
Eric Ivy explains the genesis of his program: "I grew up painfully shy and introverted, lacking social confidence. I didn't know how to approach women or even talk to them without being overcome with anxiety. To help me change my dating reality, I read extensively on the subject, consulted experts, attended seminars, tried what I had learned and then refined what worked, until it became my 28-day program."
"I had to completely recreate who I was, undoing years of self-defeating behaviors, overcoming low self-esteem, constantly acquiring new knowledge, practicing, evaluating and repeating this cycle over and over to become the person I am today. If you have a sincere desire to better yourself and create real, positive change, this program will work for you. My life and those of the hundreds of men I've counseled are living proof of it."
A satisfied Redondo Beach, CA insurance salesman calls THE DATING MATRIX, "The best book on the market to help men engage and start talking to women immediately." A Los Angeles CPA declares, "Not only does Eric provide a practical blueprint from A to Z of how to approach, meet and talk to women, but he forces you to be successful at it by demanding you complete an accountability journal to track your results. You can't fail!" And a Flint, MI intern at a civil engineering firm reports, "I went from being shy, introverted and unsure of myself around women to becoming a confident initiator with them--in 28 days. If you follow the steps in this book, you will too."
Ivy's system involves analyzing one's needs, setting relationship goals and creating an ideal-mate profile--and then maximizing one's grooming, wardrobe, living space, automobile and social budget. The next phase develops crucial verbal and non-verbal skills that initiate and advance social interaction, create attraction, develop rapport, advance intimacy and maintain relationships. THE DATING MATRIX also lists more than 40 places to meet desirable women. The reader is given daily exercises to begin practicing and internalizing the concepts immediately, in real-life settings, and at the conclusion of each day he has a series of action steps to follow.
"I have learned that being good with girls isn't something you have to be born with," Ivy says. "It's really a teachable and learnable skill. Any man can be taught to succeed with women by adopting and demonstrating universally attractive qualities, such as being perceived as fun, creative, intelligent, emotionally non-needy, adventuresome, humorous, positive and self-assured."
Ivy's thoughts and advice will soon be featured in a dating article in Men's Health magazine.
About author Eric Ivy:
Successful international romance consultant Eric Ivy earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Speech Communications from Portland State University, worked as assistant to a residential developer in Oregon and then was a trader on Wall Street with fund manager DVP Global. After a divorce, Ivy was frustrated in his attempts to successfully talk to and develop romantic relationships with women, so he read extensively on the subject, attended seminars and boot camps, consulted experts, found mentors and began to implement the most successful elements of what he had learned. This turned his life around, socially. He started helping friends, then began conducting three-day boot camps called THE DATING MATRIX, which consisted of 15 hours of class work and six hours of evening field work. As a paid consultant, Ivy has helped hundreds of men develop the relationship skills they needed. In addition to writing the book, he also created the website http://www.thedatingmatrix.com, which offers his 28-day program online.