(PRWEB) December 31, 2009
For years "The Confidence Solution" has studied the impact negative thinking patterns have on self confidence and how this has a detrimental effect on social behaviour and general enjoyment of life. As a result of this study, revolutionary techniques to get negative thinking under control have been developed that will benefit everyone who is lacking in self confidence and suffering from low self esteem. One technique is an auto-negation system for destroying negative thinking and will allow a habit to be developed of eliminating negative thoughts as soon as they enter your head.
In social situations, have you ever wondered why some people are extremely self confident whilst others are like shrinking violets? Why is it that some people can handle every social situation and come across with confidence and ease whilst others end up a gibbering mess?
Often, identical social situations presented to different individuals are reacted to totally differently. The self confident person with high self esteem is not fazed by any situation and sees a positive outcome when presented with an unusual and unexpected event. Whereas the person lacking in self confidence with low self esteem, when presented with the same unusual and unexpected event, becomes anxious, panics, worries and can only imagine negative outcomes. So why do people react in such vastly different ways? Well often the root of the problem is seated in the past but it is difficult for the person lacking self confidence to unravel historic events and they therefore continue to be anxious with very low self esteem.
In simple, realistic terms, the real difference between the two types of character, irrespective of the root of the problem, is in the way they think about things. The confidence person is always thinking in positive terms while the person lacking in confidence is always thinking negatively. The person lacking self confidence with low self esteem always worries about what can go wrong and in social situation worries that people they meet won’t like them. The person with self confidence and high self esteem always thinks of what can go right, they see opportunities all over and in social situations never doubt that the people they meet will like them. The situation is the same; it’s the way individuals react to the circumstances that is different.
All humans have an inner voice that keeps talking to us about what is going on in our lives. The self confident person has control over his or her inner voice allowing them to grasp all opportunities and have control over their social lives. On the other hand, the person lacking self confidence doesn’t have control of his or her inner voice and due to historic events always gets a message of negativity.
If a person doesn’t get their inner voice under control it can lead to a miserable life and even to depression or severe anxiety. But what can an individual do about this? How can he turn that inner voice from a negative undermining tone to a positive supporting one? These people know they are lacking in confidence and they avoid situations that make them anxious but this is no way to go on. Life should be enjoyed not lived hiding away avoiding social interaction.
The studies carried out by "The Confidence Solution" have allowed an understanding of the impact negative thinking has on social self confidence and low self esteem allowing a new technique to be developed to eliminating negative thoughts as soon as they enter your head. It is guaranteed not to have been seen before and it is starting to help people all over the world to overcome the worry of what others think.
The technique is presented in a video which can be accessed by visiting http://www.theconfidencesolution.com and will help boost confidence, overcome anxiety, destroy negative thinking, eliminate stress and much more.
"The Confidence Solution" is dedicated to finding techniques and methods to help others destroy negative thinking, boosting self confidence and self esteem, particularly in social situations. For more information visit http://www.theconfidencesolution.com, Media Contact: Nathan Nixon, Citrus Star, Eaton Place, 114 Washway Road, Manchester, M33 7RF