Dating Diva Tells Women to Find Happiness and Then a Man

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J.J. Smith loves men, but she also wants men to love women. Her refreshing new dating book, “Why I Love Men” describes how women can improve their self-esteem, happiness, and ultimately, their attractiveness to the opposite sex.

J.J. Smith offers women refreshing advice about how to improve their lives, rather than waiting for a man to fix their problems. Through self-improvement, women will be happier and better able to attract the right men. Women will be relieved to find that “Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating” does not contain shallow dating techniques, but practical advice, plenty of humor, and tips on what men really want.

Dating has never been more fun or diverse than how J.J. Smith describes it in “Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating” (ISBN 9780982301807, Adiva Publishing, 2009). Smith has created a valuable collection of resources for women facing the dating world. Mixed in with Smith’s own laugh out-loud crazy dating stories are explanations about the three types of love, how to deal with a stalker, how to “check men out” to see if they are suitable or available partners, why the vagina is a tool of female empowerment, and reasons for learning the art of striptease.

While fun is abundant in “Why I Love Men,” so is priceless practical advice. Smith firmly believes a woman should not look to a man to complete her. Instead, Smith encourages women to learn to be happy alone—if they aren’t happy with themselves, they won’t be happy with someone else. In a recent interview, Smith described “Why I Love Men” as “smartly designed to celebrate who we are as women.” Smith advises that, “Once women see that dating is not just preparation for finding a husband, but also for finding yourself and uncovering what brings you joy, they will come to know true happiness.”

Smith focuses on why a woman needs to know her Relationship Market Value (RMV). This factor is determined by understanding the value a woman brings to a relationship, the men she can attract, and how ready she is for a relationship. Far from suggesting that women should manipulate men or try to attract a mate with 1950s housewife strategies, Smith encourages women to become whole, comfortable, and fulfilled, which in turn raises their RMV and makes them attractive to men, not in looks alone, but by being intelligent, interesting, fulfilled human beings and worthy partners in a relationship. Self-esteem is sexy. Smith can show a woman how to carry it off with humor and style.

Women readers love this book! The African American Literature Book Club says, “Why I Love Men” provides “tried-and-true cures to our relationship malaise.” NY Times bestselling author Marci Shimoff declares, “A must-read for women looking for love!” and BookIdeas shouts, “J.J. Smith has got it going ON! She epitomizes style and class, and women everywhere, single or not, would do well to take her advice. READ IT!”

About the Author
J.J. Smith is a Dating and Relationship Expert, Author, Radio Host, Life Coach and Corporate Executive. J.J. is also the host of "Real Talk with JJ and The Fellas," a radio show that provides advice to single women looking for real answers on love, dating, sex and relationships. J.J has appeared on NBC, FOX, NewsChannel8, Glamour Magazine, Ladies Home Journal. the Jamie Foxx Show, Montel Williams Show, Michael Baisden Show, HOT97, KISS 98.7 and many others. J.J. is also the Dating and Relationship Columnist for Black Star News. J.J.'s engaging personality, and no-holds barred dating books offer sometimes controversial guidance that has been grabbing readers and listeners, both men and women alike, and keeping them coming back for more! J.J Smith serves currently as VP and Partner of an IT Consulting Firm in Washington, DC and was the youngest African-American to receive a Vice President position at a Fortune 500 company. She has published numerous white papers and is the recipient of several performance awards.

“Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating” (ISBN 9780982301807, Adiva Publishing, 2009) can be purchased through local and online bookstores. For more information, visit Publicity contact: Review copies available upon request.


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