People are measured too much by what they have instead of by what they value.
Memphis, TN (PRWEB) March 29, 2010
MatureBlackandSingle is a new dating website established to assist one particular group who has a higher statistic rate of being single than others. According to a recent Nightline show entitled Single, Black, Female – And Plenty of Company, there are 42 percent more single black women than single white women. This particular episode brought out many aspects as to why this is happening. More and more black women are focusing on getting an education and being successful in their perspective career choices, while their black male counterparts are being lost to many negative effects of society, such as being incarcerated. Episode link >Nightline ABC News
Steve Harvey appeared on this same episode to give the four young successful black women, who appeared on the show, some advice on finding a descent partner. He stated they may need to “lower their demands” while in the process of searching for a potential new mate. He felt that focusing on finding a man who may equal up in every way may be why it’s so hard for them to land someone. In other words, Steve strongly felt the type of man they may be striving for may be out there, but hard to find. Steve stated there are still many descent black men available in America, despite all the negativity.
The founder of the newly launched MatureBlackandSingle has taken all the concerns mentioned above into consideration. She too is a single black female who feels there are still some good black men available in America. People are measured too much by what they have instead of by what they value. If a black woman can find a black man who will hold a job, shows stability, is a good communicator, is not abusive, and not an abuser of drugs and alcohol, she has found herself a gem of a man. He doesn’t have to be a CEO of some large company, or have $500,000 plus in his bank account at all times.
The current society can be viewed as being very materialistic and it has warped our way of thinking. There are many avenues one can use when searching for the right person to settle with. One of the easiest is through online dating services. With so many available, there’s no shortage in choices. But for individuals who are mature, black, and single men and women age 35 or older, and prefer an online dating site that caters to people of this criterion then look no further, MatureBlackandSingle is a new dating site setup to accommodate all who fit this category. New members are welcome to post an initial dating profile, browse, and interact on the site forum. The site forum gives all an opportunity to express thoughts on what is relevant in starting and maintaining a relationship.
Below are some other added tips to keep in mind when searching for a new partner online:
- When posting photos with a profile, never post one that just features a clothed or unclothed body part. One doesn't want to give the impression this all he/she is all about.
- When meeting someone for the first time, it is wise to meet in a public place, just in case there’s no real love connection and for safety purposes.
- Don’t sound over anxious on the first date. Relax and let everything flow naturally.
- And last but not least, be truthful and honest.