Amsterdam, the Netherlands (PRWEB) August 18, 2010
The summer time is the perfect time for many people to go on vacation to enjoy distant cultures or to simply enjoy the sun, sea, and beach. This summer however, more than any other summer, seems to be the best time for men to have a summer fling. Why? http://www.win-with-women.com
Like the ladies of the new “Sex and the City” sequel, data from a survey released by the American Resort Development Association (ARDA) shows women are taking girlfriend getaways more than ever.
According to the survey, thirty-eight percent of women have taken a girlfriend getaway with family or friends, and 63 percent plan on taking one in the next two years. One of the main causes of the girlfriend getaway trend according to the research is that there are now more career women with expendable income than ever.
Top dating coach for men Dennis Miedema is quick to point out that: “With more women going on vacation with their female friends every year, single men should seriously think about what to do on vacation to meet women. It’s now easier to have a summer fling than ever.”
To help single men everywhere meet more women on vacation without much effort, Dennis Miedema shares 3 ways for men to have a summer fling:
“First off, when men go to another country they tend to meet women of the country they’re from because it’s easier: they speak the same language as they do. Meanwhile, the women of most countries are interested in foreign men simply because they’re unpredictable. Women like unpredictable men: it makes dating fun and exciting, in fact, unpredictability is the main reason why bad boys are and always will be attractive to women. That’s why single men should focus on having a summer fling with foreign women during summer vacation, because they’re already attracted to them before they even say a word! Plus, foreign women are more fun and exciting to men as much as foreign men are fun and exciting to women.”
Dennis Miedema continues: “Secondly, going on vacation to the same place as last time isn’t a bad idea at all for men. The main reason is that after staying somewhere for a week or two? They know the great and not so great venues for eating, going out, and so on. Popular destinations for tourists attract new women all the time and an easy way to meet and date them for single men is by giving women an unoffical tour of what’s cool and what’s not. It makes the vacation more fun for the women and the men, well, they usually get a summer fling out of it because women on vacation are very different from women at home. Women go on vacation to relax, loosen up, go crazy, and so on just like men do. That makes meeting them on vacation easier and playing the tour guide for them a very smart idea.”
He goes on to say: “Thirdly, there is no reason for men to only relate to their little friend circle. See, what usually happens is that they go on vacation with their friends, only talk to their friends, and then go home. Meanwhile, local guys and girls of the place or country they’re visiting know local women and can introduce men to them, know the best places to meet women, and so on. They can also simply show guys how to have a better vacation. For example: an Italian could share that Italy’s trains require people to reserve a seat in advance or they can’t get on the train, so it’s a smart idea to buy a ticket the day before they go somewhere. That kind of stuff people either learn the hard way or via locals. I highly recommend single men to befriend the locals and to see what it leads to. They will be surprised, because the locals quite often know more interesting people than one migh think.”
Dennis Miedema then shares some thoughts in general on why having a summer fling could be a good idea: “Listen, men and women are psychologically wired in different ways. Men crave different things instinctively than women do, one thing being to have as much sexual partners as possible. A summer fling is the perfect way to have a relationship or to have casual sex with a woman without any strings attached. Women know that and often don’t expect men to want a relationship out of it any way because they themselves are looking for a not so serious summer fling too!”
He concludes: “Single men should realize the benefits of having a summer fling in general, and of the 3 ways to do it mentioned before in particular. Single men make meeting women during the summer more difficult for themselves than it could be. The tips mentioned before can help them make having a summer fling way easier!”
Dennis Miedema is the creator of the Simple Inner Game System about creating attraction and a trusted authority on dating advice for men. During the last 2 years, he has helped 603 men approach 10.854 women, get 2.713 phone numbers, and go on 904 dates. If not more.
Dennis has been recognized by the Seduction Syndicate (an association for dating coaches) and several dating experts across the globe (including Debra Berndt, America’s Love Expert) for giving top notch quality dating advice for men from a unique perspective.
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