Amsterdam, the Netherlands (PRWEB) November 10, 2010
After newspaper Cornell Daily Zone did an article on getting out of the friends zone last week, everyone’s wondering what this “friends zone” exactly is, why so many men end up being stuck in it, and how getting out of the friends zone is done.
Dating guru Dennis Miedema steps into the picture to explain where the friends zone comes from:
“Most single guys lie to themselves when they meet a good-looking woman they really like. Why? It starts with them not having the confidence to ask her out. They convince themselves that they will find the courage to do so later on, but meanwhile the woman is waiting for them to take action. After several weeks a woman concludes that a guy must not be interested, or he would have asked her out already. That’s when she decides to just be friends with him and that’s why most guys want to know how getting out of the friends zone is done.”
Dennis Miedema continues: “This problem of men not having the courage and then sticking around is so common, that 80% of the women who have a guy as their best friend don’t know that he had entirely different intentions in the beginning. Hell, in most cases a guy who’s a woman’s best friend still has feelings for her and breaks his own heart when she starts dating someone else. Why? He wanted to be that guy!”
Dennis offers a way of getting out of the friends zone: “The lesson single guys everywhere can learn is that waiting never means dating. The dating game favors men who take action simply because most women want men to take the lead and “conquer” them, and when men don’t they’re seen as insecure losers. This is why men need to take action as soon as they meet a woman they like. The longer they hesitate the harder it gets, which is why it’s recommended to wait no more than 3 seconds to approach a woman because it doesn’t allow doubt to enter the mind. Men have to work on their confidence for that but I can help them do that. I’ve been doing it with my Simple Inner Game System for years.”
He gives us another way for getting out of the friends zone: “The last tip was about how to prevent becoming friends so getting out of the friends zone isn’t necessary anymore, but men everywhere need to know how to get out of it once they’re in it as well. The answer’s simple but brutal: if women never get a chance to miss a guy because he’s always around, they won’t. If women never have to fight for a guy, they don’t. They’ll let him walk. ”
Dennis Miedema goes into more detail: “Attractive women are approached by men in one way or another an average of 6 times a day. That means women are used to having the power of choice, but no one wants what’s easy to have. It’s an age old rule of human psychology: we want what we can’t have. Men that are easy to get are disregarded as potential lovers, but men who are hard to get? That’s what women secretly crave. Guys need to treat women like they’re their bratty little sisters and playfully tease them so the women know the guys expect more than a pretty face. That’s very different from agreeing with everything a woman says and chasing her around while trying to impress her like every other guy does. Getting out of the friends zone is similar to the saying less is more.”
Dennis Miedema is the author of the Simple Inner Game System and a trusted authority on dating advice for men. During the last 2 years, he has helped 603 men approach 10,854 women, get 2,713 phone numbers, and go on 904 dates. If not more.
Dennis has been recognized by the Seduction Syndicate (an association for dating gurus) for giving top notch quality dating advice for men about getting out of the friends zone and many other topics.
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