Dating Expert Reveals Tips on How To Flirt With Girls In New Report
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) November 08, 2011
Dating expert Carlos Xuma says that men who are predictable are boring. Men who truly want to be successful in how to flirt with girls, need to mix it up a little and actually send women some mixed signals.
It’s not playing games or being deceptive, it’s all about men learning how to keep it hot, sexy, and interesting for both of them, Carlos Xuma says in a recent report that includes tips on how to keep women wondering.
“The beauty of these tips is that many of them can work on a very small level, say when a man has just met a woman and they are getting to know each other and then later on down the road, when a guy is in longer-term relationship,” Xuma says. “A lot of guys forget that they have to maintain attraction and continue to attract women even once the relationships is on solid ground.”
In a new report, Xuma reveals that sending mixed signals makes a woman not entirely sure of a man’s intentions and this stirs up her passion and lust.
Here’s the first tip Xuma shares in his report on how to seduce women: Occasionally a man needs to act aloof.
“Men can use this strategy during their first-ever conversation with and girl and can also use it if they have been dating for months. What he wants to do is act a little aloof or mysterious for a bit of time. This means he can possibly go silent for a portion of the conversation or ignore her or focus on something else for awhile,” Xuma says. “They key is to not do it very long. Just for a little bit of time and only occasionally.”
Another way to keep it spicy and hot when a man wants to flirt with women is for the guy to occasionally do something completely out of character, Xuma says.
For instance, if he never eats Thai food, he should suggest they have that for dinner. Anything that takes the woman off guard or surprises her will work.
“A guy should try to shatter her expectations,” Xuma says. “When a man shows a woman he isn’t as consistent as she thinks, he keeps the attraction fired up. When a woman thinks she knows everything about a guy and how he will react at all times it becomes boring. Boring kills attraction and sex appeal.”
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys, and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and helps them learn how to flirt with girls.