Dating Expert Shares Seduction Techniques in New Article
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) December 06, 2011
The true pick up artist is a guy who has learned from his mistakes and has a "tool belt" containing a repertoire of effective seduction techniques, Carlos Xuma says in a new article.
Xuma reveals several key strategies that work to attract and seduce women.
Here’s the first tip Xuma shares in his article: Men need to wear their confidence - like a badge.
“The one difference between a man who attracts women and a man who wants to attract women? Confidence,” Xuma says. “Men who learn how to project their confidence to women by showing a confident, but casual interest, will have successfully learned the first seduction technique that really works.”
Confidence can be acquired, Xuma says in his report on seduction techniques.
“Body language is key in projecting confidence so men need to pick up a book on body language and memorize it. They need to learn how to stand, sit, and move in a way that oozes confidence,” he says. “In addition, men need to learn to use their body language to also show they are not intimidated or afraid of anything. This helps women see them as a secure, confident man.”
Another great way to attract women is possible through these seduction techniques in Xuma’s report: Let the attraction build.
“Too many men rush around thinking it’s a do or die situation when they are trying on how to get a girlfriend,” Xuma says. “A true seduction artist knows that the longer he waits for the prize, the sweeter it is. A true man knows that if he puts too much pressure on himself, he will blow it. Men never have just one shot.”
Instead, take the time to let attraction build, he says.
“Men need to learn to not be quite so accessible. The more men take their time and are aloof, the more women are attracted to them,” he says in his report. “This is the most natural of the seduction techniques out there. Everyone wants what they think they can’t have.”
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and helps them learn seduction techniques.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.datingdynamics.com
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