San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) August 09, 2011
The most confident, successful men in the world have been known to completely freeze up and become tongue tied when they approach women. It is a common feeling and stems from the fear of rejection.
Take heart, however, because this fear, also called 'approach anxiety,' can be conquered. Learning how to successfully approach women takes a little insight into human nature and psychology, but will pay off in a more satisfying and fulfilling dating life.
“What almost all of our fears boil down to, in essence, is a fear of displeasing others,” says dating expert Carlos Xuma. “At the root of our fears in life, we learned from an early age that we don’t want to get anyone angry with us. It started with our parents, and ever since then, we’ve been a slave to the approval of others.”
Xuma, however, has found a way to conquer that fear once and for all. His methods of dealing with this approach anxiety have helped him leave this fear behind for good and he is eager to share his secret to how to meet women successfully with others.
He reveals his secrets to dealing with this fear, as well as sharing methods to approach women in a way that will lead to a healthy dating relationship. In addition, Carlos Xuma’s methods and philosophies are based around building up a man’s self esteem so that ultimately any small rejections don’t matter in the larger scheme of things.
“You will accept that the worst thing that could happen to you when you approach women is that she says 'No' - and that her 'No' has nothing to do with who you are as a man,” Xuma explains. “And when you get a 'No,' you’re also getting an opportunity to learn from your approach and improve it. So you see, in reality, you never lose.”
There are many techniques Carlos Xuma teaches to help men bolster their self-esteem and focus on becoming more attractive and successful in the dating arena. Ultimately, the journey for men who are striving to be the best men they can be automatically results in attracting women.
For years, Xuma has shared a wealth of information that has helped men improve their seduction techniques, learn how to attract women, and how to be the best men they can be. Carlos Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work helping hundreds of men discover the secrets of attracting women and meeting women with his trademarked system called "REAL Game™."
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.alphaconfidence.com/approach/.