San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) August 16, 2011
It mystifies most men when they see an average-looking guy walking down the street with a knockout woman on his arm. She is looking up at him adoringly and laughing at everything, he says. As they walk by, every guy that sees the couple wonders, "What does he have that I don’t?"
What this man has, that isn’t apparent to any passerby, is alpha male traits that make him irresistible to women of all ages. Now, dating guru Carlos Xuma reveals some of these characteristics that attract women.
Women are biologically programmed to respond to men who exhibit particular behaviors that demonstrate alpha male and leadership qualities. In his career as a dating expert, Xuma offers up examples of how to take these traits and maximize them to attract women. For instance, a few alpha male character qualities include confidence, a sense of humor, and ambition.
“Women are attracted to ambition because it's one of the indicating that you are a survivor, provider, and protector,” Xuma says. ‘It's rather complicated how these attitudes are connected, but suffice to say that a lack of ambition indicates passivity and the opposite indicates an active attitude to life.”
A huge part of developing alpha male traits is that attitude that goes along with it. Carlos Xuma has spent years teaching men how to tap into that alpha male confidence and attitude. Some men were surprised to find that their good looks alone did not attract women.
If a guy is naturally attractive, that's a start, but he’s going to need more. If he’s not that physically attractive to begin with, he can easily overcome it by developing the right alpha male traits.
“If I had a dime for every guy I knew who was good looking but totally messing up his singles life because he was a wimp overly nice-guy, well then I’d be rich,” Xuma says. “I kid you not: You’ll attract women more often with your attitude and alpha male traits and the attitude you project than you will with physical attractiveness alone.”
Xuma teaches men how to improve and excel in these three areas so that women will actually flock to men instead of the other way around. For years, Xuma has been sharing a wealth of information that has helped men improve their seduction techniques, learn how to attract women, and build self-confidence to a higher level than ever before.
Carlos Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work helping hundreds of men learn how to attract women with the Three S’s: self-confidence, self-discipline, and a sense of humor.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.attractwomen.com.