Strategies Revealed in Dating Expert’s New Report: Ways to Approach Women
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) January 24, 2012
Men think and women feel - and until men understand this simple fact, Dating Expert Carlos Xuma says, they will have a difficult time learning ways to approach women.
“Now of course, it’s not that simplistic. Some of the most emotional artists in the world are men and some of the planet’s most brilliant minds are women, but on a day-to-day basis, men, and women tend to react to the world a bit differently," Carlos Xuma says in a recent report.
“Listen to any argument between a man and a woman. Nine times out of ten, the man will use phrases such as “I think …” and the woman will say, “I feel,” Xuma explains in his report. “ So, the first step to learning strategies to approach women is for men to understand that women work on an emotional level. Once a man understands that, he is already leagues above other men.”
Here’s the first rule and tip Xuma shares in his report: Men should demand a woman’s attention.
“Now I don’t mean doing this in an arrogant, jerk way,” Xuma explains in his report. “What that means is learning ways to approach women in a take-charge, alpha male way where a man is showing the woman that he is confident and direct.”
That involves a man locking eyes with a woman and oozing confidence in his body language, actions, and the words he chooses, Xuma says.
“A lot of guys make this mistake right off the bat: trying to first make inroads with her by being her friend,” Xuma says. “That is wimpy. Men need to show they command her attention from their very first interaction.”
Another key strategy and secret in ways to attract women involves touching a woman in a way that immediately builds attraction, Xuma says.
“Most guys make the mistake of touching a woman they just men in a grabby, annoying manner,” Carlos Xuma says. “This can be a huge turnoff to women. There is a time and place for touching a woman a man has just met. At first, the only touch should be a brief one, preferably on her arm as the man begins speaking to her.”
Xuma’s new report reveals more details on just how and when to first touch a woman, along with an arsenal of ways to approach women.
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and helps them learn multiple ways to approach women.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.carlosxuma.com