Author of Slow Sex, Nicole Daedone, Writes Letter of Apology to Men

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Nicole Daedone, author of Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm (Grand Central/Hachette, May 2011) has written an epic ‘Letter of Apology to Men’ on her blog: http://nicoledaedone.com/2012/01/letter-of-apology-to-men/

Nicole Daedone, author of Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm (Grand Central/Hachette, May 2011) has written an epic ‘Letter of Apology to Men’ on her blog: http://nicoledaedone.com/2012/01/letter-of-apology-to-men/

The letter is in response to the “Dear Woman” video on YouTube (March 22nd 2011) that has reached 797,311 views and was featured by The Washington Times. The men in the video say they “acknowledge many thousands of years of dominance of masculine power, and offer an apology for the suppression of women, in the spirit of a fresh start.”

Responding in kind, Nicole Daedone writes in her blog, “I thought that as a species, we women were remiss in offering a response. Poor guys, taking the brunt for all of it! No way! Here you go guys, a response. May all sentient beings now have very good sex.”

The blog reads “I apologize for the times when I used my sex as a bargaining chip – to get you to love me, to want me, to claim me. And then, when I had you and no longer needed to bargain, stopped having sex. I apologize for seeing you as a security conquest, giving you the best sex of your life right before you gave me the commitment.

I apologize for the big fat lie I intimated, that I was a “finite game,” and that after you completed the following tasks we would now return you to your regularly-scheduled programming – that you could return to the peace and comfort of your mind, and I would leave you alone in the sanctuary, away from my chaos and unpredictability.” Read the full blog here http://nicoledaedone.com.

Nicole Daedone’s TEDxSF talk entitled ‘Orgasm: The Cure for Hunger in the Western Woman’ has reached 150,000 views on YouTube since it was posted in June last year. In 2004 she founded OneTaste, the San Francisco based organization that is behind the next big thing in sex: OM. Short for Orgasmic Mediation, OM is a simple sexuality practice that two people do together to increase sexual sensation, deepen connection, and take their sex lives to a whole new level.

In his #1 New York Times Bestseller The 4-Hour Body Timothy Ferriss calls the OM practice “required education for every man on the planet.” OneTaste and OM have also been featured in the New York Times, Time.com, NPR and ABCNews.

The ‘Letter of Apology to Men’ is the beginning of a different way of relating between men and women. Let it stand as the beginning of a dialogue between the sexes of what can be. Here’s to the beginning of fabulous sex for all!

http://nicoledaedone.com/2012/01/letter-of-apology-to-men/

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