The truth is that women develop a feeling about a man - that he's cool, sexy, creepy, etc. - that has little to do with the logical, thinking brain.
New York, NY (PRWEB) January 26, 2012
What are women "thinking about" when men are hitting on them? A new breakthrough study in female intuition by dating coach Nick Sparks, of The Social Man, reveals the six key differences between a man who is nervous, and a man with fearless confidence, and how those six differences affect a woman's feelings.
"Most men think that women have these complex thoughts about them," according to Nick Sparks, whose work led to these breakthroughs. "But the truth is that women develop a feeling about a man - that he's cool, sexy, creepy, etc. - that has little to do with the logical, thinking brain."
Sparks, a coach at the men's social coaching company The Social Man, has worked with hundreds of clients over the past three years, helping them develop confidence and charisma.
While traditional men's coaching has focused on the teaching of lines, stories, and tricks, Sparks noticed that these standard "tools of the trade," no matter how well-memorized by his clients, would still fail them around the women they desired the most - the women who induced nervousness and fear.
"We began to record videos of our clients when they were interacting with our female instructors, who are some of New York's most beautiful models and actresses. We carefully reviewed the moments when the fear kicked in - before the approach, when the first few words were being exchanged, during awkward pauses, and so on. And we zeroed in on the very subtle behaviors that caused the women to develop either positive, or negative emotions."
The result? Six key, make-or-break "actions" that the men would either get right or wrong, that caused women to develop strong emotional feelings of attraction, indifference, or disgust. Even men who have a social phobia can begin to overcome it by applying these actions.
"This changes everything," says Sparks. "Once men learn the six simple things that her female intuition is evaluating, and get them right, they get positive responses from women, every time, and develop the level of fearless confidence that used to be reserved for a few naturals. It's easy, and women love men for it, because it's not a faked gimmick, but rather, it becomes an authentic part of the man's personality."