San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) October 25, 2012
According to Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report on how to flirt with girls, talking intelligently about current events, such as debates in the presidential race, is a great way for a man to seem more alpha male.
“The beauty of being informed about current events and what is going on in the world is that it is an instant interesting conversation topic to introduce to any group of people,” Xuma says. “For instance, the presidential debate between President Barack Obama and Republican Mitt Romney is ripe for conversation fodder. The trick is to introduce the topic without revealing a particular viewpoint and let the conversation spin off from there.”
However, Xuma warns, people who are overtly political and have exceedingly strong political views might avoid this until they get to know a girl a bit better.
“When men learn how to flirt with girls they also realize this can be a way to filter out women who don’t have similar views,” Xuma says. “Some men could care less about what a woman’s political stance is and those men should remain neutral when they bring up the topic of the Obama and Romney debates. There are plenty of areas to discuss regarding the debate that can be considered interesting and yet not overboard.”
However, Xuma suggests that men who feel strongly about politics and would never consider dating someone without shared political views can use this tool as a way to flirt with girls and in the process weed out the women they just won’t be compatible with in the long run.
“Men who are successful and experts in how to flirt with girls have already learned that while physical chemistry is a part of attraction, another huge portion of what attracts someone is in the mind,” Xuma says. “Women are stimulated and attracted by men who can speak intelligently about any number of current events. Obviously politics is one of the biggest current events this year.”
A man who can speak intelligently about both President Barack Obama and Republican contender Mitt Romney is going to be able to flirt with girls with ease- “The ability to discuss current events and share opinions is a very alpha male trait and men who want to be successful with women would be wise to realize this,” says Xuma.
Carlos Xuma is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles, has been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys, tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, and how to talk to girls. He has spent years teaching hundreds of men how to pick up women through his website, http://www.win-with-women.com. Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.carlosxuma.com .