San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) October 16, 2012
There is a fine line between being able to pick up a woman and coming off like a creep or a jerk, and the men who know how to walk that edge are the ones who barely have enough hours in the week to see all the women they are dating, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new controversial report on how to pick up a women without looking like a creep.
“Learning how to be just cocky enough to attract women and yet not so arrogant as to be considered a jerk by them is a skill that every man should learn,” Xuma says in his just-released report. “In addition, some behaviors that a guy might think are sensual or sexy can come off creepy to women if not done just right.”
Xuma’s new report teaches men how to walk along that fine line between charismatic and attractive and being a jerk or a creep.
For instance, as Xuma says in his report on how to pick up women without looking like a creep, it is a misconception that women like jerks.
“Women don’t like jerks. Instead, women like men who embody particular traits and characteristics that we have traditionally associated with men who are considered jerks,” he says in the report. “For instance, a guy who others might consider a jerk might be a guy who doesn’t give a rat’s rear-end about what anyone else thinks about him. On its face value, not caring what others think does not equal being a jerk.”
Xuma says that years spent analyzing what women like about jerks makes it easy for “nice guys” to adopt those traits and characteristics to attract women.
For instance, self-confidence, cockiness, and a desire to please oneself are traits traditionally associated with the image of a jerk.
“But a nice guy can be confident, cocky, and have a desire to make himself happy without being a jerk,” Xuma says.
But Xuma’s report on how to pick up women not only outlines how men can be success with women by adopting these traits, it also clarifies how some behavior can be creepy when done inappropriately.
“A lot of behavior that can be misread as creepy involves when and how a guy first touches a woman or first brings up intimacy,” Xuma says. “This new report gives specifics on how to first touch a woman or talk about intimate issues in a way that will spark attraction instead of decrease it.”
Carlos Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles, has been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys, tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, and how to talk to girls. Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men how to pick up women through his website at http://www.carlosxuma.com.