Dating Expert's Carlos Xuma Talks Politics in New Report: Building a "Black Book" of Names

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Carlos Xuma reminds men in his latest report how to find and attract women who fit his personal bill - without limiting his options by ruling himself out for the candidates who may not think he matches theirs.

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Carlos Xuma Reveals How to Attract Women

The bottom line is attracting women who meet a guy’s individual qualifications and needs . . . In the dating world, each guy has his own uniwue set of qualifications for the women he dates. And guess what? So do women.

Dating Expert Carlos Xuma, who refuses to take sides publicly, says that despite what the pundits said, Presidential hopeful Mitt Romney probably meant to say he had obtained entire binders full of names of women qualified for cabinet positions.

Needless to say, he didn't. But regardless of that, and no matter what political side of the fence a guy might stand upon, one thing can be agreed on when it comes to qualified women in the dating game: having an entire binder that is filled with names of women qualified to date would be a good thing, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report on how to attract women.

“There is definitely something to be said about having an overabundance of qualified women in the dating arena,” Xuma says in the report. “However, most guys won’t have a chance of meeting these qualified women unless they learn some key skills on how to attract women.”

And, Xuma adds, that is one topic not up for debate.

“Politics can be an ugly business, which is one reason working as a dating expert is so great – dating issues are nonpartisan,” Xuma says. “In fact, talk about the presidential debates between Romney and President Barack Obama is a good way to strike up a conversation, as long as it doesn’t get too political.”

In the current social climate, Xuma’s nonpartisan attitude is likely also an example of the most suitable one to bring to the dating arena - a man will more easily attract women without putting opinions that may initially repel those who'd disagree on open display.

As Xuma says, “Men should lay low on their outspoken political views unless they only want to date women who agree with them. In that case, a guy should blab away, but if politics aren’t that important, then a man might want to lay low about his views during the next few months.”

What is increasingly clear, however, is that being able to attract a woman who meets a guy’s qualifications is very important in the dating world, says Xuma.

“That’s where joking about the whole binder of women thing becomes topical,” he says. “But the bottom line is finding a large group of women who meet a guy’s individual qualifications and needs. For some men, a nonsmoker might be a crucial qualification, while another guy might say he won’t date someone who doesn’t go to church. In the dating world, each guy has his own unique set of qualifications for the women he dates. And guess what? So do women.”

Carlos Xuma has been recognized for his work sharing tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, how to find a woman, dating advice for guys, and how to get a girlfriend and spent more than a decade helping men attract women through his website, How To Attract Women. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio and is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, and the Girlfriend Training Program.

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