“Linking emotions, particularly positive ones, when texting a girl helps build attraction. When a guy associates himself with an emotion that feels good, the girl will almost subconsciously become more comfortable and attracted."
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) November 13, 2012
A guy who figures out how to seduce a girl by texting knows that the key is to catch the emotions of the girl in question and keep their conversations, and himself, feeling intriguing, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report on texting women.
“Linking emotions, particularly positive ones, with a text conversation or in-person meeting helps build attraction,” Xuma says. “When a guy associates himself with a particular emotion, hopefully one that feels good, the girl will almost subconsciously become more comfortable and attracted to the guy.”
In addition, says Xuma in the report, a guy needs to make sure that every single little thing he texts a girl serves to make him look more interesting.
“Avoid boring texts like the plague,” Xuma says. “These types of texts – boring ones – are really good at killing attraction. But the good news is men can send interesting texts that can spark interest and help build attraction.”
For a guy thinking of what to text a girl, it never hurts to text about a current event - preferably one likely to inspire an emotional reaction.
“For instance, people around the country are talking about the African painted dogs that mauled a toddler in Pittsburg,” Xuma says. “A guy can mention how screwed up that whole situation is when he sends a girl a text. The key in a situation like that is for the guy to offer comfort in a sad situation. If he only mentions the death, the girl will associate the guy with sad feelings. But if the guy offers sympathy and support and comfort, the girl will associate him with those feelings instead.
“But the key is to keep it short. Men need to remember to save the stimulating, in-depth conversations for when they see the girl in person. The easiest way to think about it is this: by texting a mention of a topic, a guy is essentially laying the groundwork for a future conversation.”
Xuma shares more tips on how to text a girl in his new report.
Carlos Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He has spent years teaching hundreds of men, through his website at http://www.win-with-women.com. He is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. Xuma has been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys, how to text a girl, tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, and how to talk to girls.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.carlosxuma.com .