In his report on how to call girls with confidence, Xuma advises having a game plan of exactly what a guy wants to say before his fingers ever hit any numbers on that phone. "It is key for a guy to have his goal in front of him," Xuma says.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) November 15, 2012
With a little bit of foresight, any guy can successfully call a girl with confidence and get the result he is after, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report that addresses rules and tips for men calling girls.
“Although texting has taken over the dating scene with a rampage, at some point a guy has got to pick up the phone and hit dial,” Xuma says. “When that time comes it helps for men to be armed with some basic rules about calling women.”
In his report on how to call girls with confidence, Xuma lays out a few basic rules, such as having a game plan of exactly what a guy wants to say before his fingers ever hit any numbers on that phone.
“It is key for a guy to have his goal in front of him,” Xuma says. “Some guys even have a small pad of paper near them where they’ve written down some key bullet points they want to cover during the conversation. For instance, a guy might have ‘ask about her day’ and then ‘mention party Friday night.’ There is nothing wrong with having this little cheat sheet to keep a guy on track and on task.”
The next of Xuma's tips on how to call girls with confidence is having a few topics in mind, maybe one or two, to bring up during the conversation.
“Most guys live a busy life and don’t have time to read the New York Times from cover-to-cover every morning, or watch BBC news before work, or attend local city council meetings,” Xuma says. “But knowledge of current events are a great way for a guy to bring up a topic in conversation.”
For instance, Xuma points out, it is easy during an election year to bring up political topics at a national or local level.
“Guys who want to learn how to call girls need to be assertive: Ask the girl if she’s been following the debates between Republican hopeful Mitt Romney and President Barack Obama,” he says. “Ask her how she is voting on particular issues that will have local impact. It’s okay if she says she doesn’t want to talk politics or isn’t familiar with an issue. Then talk sports. How about those Lakers? The Atlantic Falcons? Any of these conversation prompts will work wonders to keep that dreaded silence from descending over the phone line.”
These tips and more can be found in Xuma’s new report on how to call girls.
Carlos Xuma is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys, how to call girls, tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, and how to talk to girls. He also has spent years teaching hundreds of men, through his website at http://www.carlosxuma.com. Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.carlosxuma.com .