Teaching men how to text flirt effectively also involves reminding the guy to keep his eye on the prize: a date. While some flirtation can be done over the phone, the ultimate seduction of a woman must — by its very nature — take place in person.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) November 20, 2012
Anyone who pays attention to the news knows that seduction in the twenty-first century lies in how effective a guy is in seducing a woman through text messages, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report on how to text flirt.
“Most men have to at least have a basic grasp on how to flirt through texting or they are going to lose a woman’s interest in three seconds flat,” Xuma says. “It’s the way of the world nowadays. A guy who comes across boring or needy or desperate or, worst of all, weird, is going to be dropped like a hot potato.”
According to Xuma, learning how to text flirt should be right up there with talking a girl into meeting in person for the first time. “In fact, it often is just that,” he says. “The ability to flirt through texting gives a guy the ammunition he needs to set up that first date and essentially, that is the whole goal and purpose of texting in the first place.”
Xuma also states that too many men forget that texting is simply a tool to arrange an in-person meeting.
“Teaching men how to text flirt effectively also involves reminding the guy to keep his eye on the prize: a date,” Xuma says. “While some flirtation can be done over the phone, the ultimate seduction of a woman must — by its very nature — take place in person.”
In his report, Carlos Xuma outlines five key tips to effectively flirt by texting in such a way that an in-person meeting is inevitable.
For instance, Xuma stresses that nothing is worse than coming across as needy over text.
“That usually happens when a guy gets overeager to text a girl,” Xuma says. “He either texts too much information, or too frequently.”
To avoid that, Xuma suggests that a guy be sure to be unpredictable in texting patterns:
“Instead of immediately responding to every text a girl sends or waiting a day to respond to every text she sends, a guy needs to mix it up a little,” Xuma says. “This way he is unpredictable. Being predictable is boring and kills attraction.”
This is just one of the many tips Xuma shares with men in his new report on flirting and texting.
Carlos Xuma is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys, tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, and how to talk to girls. He has spent years teaching hundreds of men how to attract women and how to text flirt through his website at http://www.attractwomen.com. Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.win-with-women.com