Tips for Helping Children Avoid Sensory Overload During the Holiday Season from the Sensory Processing Disorder Foundation

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The holiday season can be overwhelming for children with SPD and other disorders with sensory components, including autism spectrum disorders and attention deficit disorders. The SPD Foundation provides tips to help families enjoy their holidays.

Illustration from SPD Foundation's Do You Know Me flyer, which explains SPD to family members and friends.

The holiday season can be overwhelming for children with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) and other disorders with sensory components, including autism spectrum disorders and attention deficit disorders.

Children with SPD have trouble processing information gathered through the senses, resulting in unacceptable behaviors. For instance, children with SPD may refuse to eat at family gatherings, find hugs unbearable, or have meltdowns while shopping. These behaviors are daily realities for more than three million children in the United States alone, but accentuated with the additional intensity and excitement from holiday activities.

The Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) Foundation encourages parents to download its Do You Know Me flyer, which can be used to explain SPD and specific behaviors to family members and friends. The flyer is available at in both English and Spanish.

The SPD Foundation also offers the following tips to help families with situations that arise during the holidays.

  •     Noise: Loud noises and nonstop music can become unbearable for children with SPD. Provide ear plugs or headphones with relaxing music for children who are sensitive to sound.
  •     Crowds: Malls and family gatherings may cause sensory overload in children. To help prevent meltdowns, parents should locate a quiet zone where their child can safely have some downtime. At family gatherings, a portable DVD player with movies can be a lifesaver, as can a favorite toy or building set. These provide the child with an opportunity to retreat to a quieter area to regroup before returning to the crowd.
  •     Meals: When a family has a child who is a problem or picky eater, it can affect the entire holiday gathering. Members of the extended family may assume the child’s reaction to food is a behavior problem, without understanding the underlying sensory issues. Parents should bring food with them to gatherings outside the home, and ask family members not to comment on the child’s food choices.
  •     Travel: For children who have trouble sitting still for long periods of time, make sure to include some form of physical activity every hour. Even seated activities, like wiggling or shaking their hands and feet, can make a huge difference.
  •     Clothing: Some holiday gatherings may have dress codes. Allow children who are overly sensitive to touch wear comfortable clothes, even though the clothes may seem too casual for the event.
  •     Schedules: Children with SPD tend to thrive in structured environments. Create a fun holiday calendar by inserting pictures of planned activities that are outside the regular routine. Over time, family holiday traditions may be comforting to children because they are familiar.

"Although taking extra precautions with your ‘sensational’ child may lessen the number of meltdowns during the holidays, they may not be totally eliminated. Watch for cues and remove your child from overwhelming situations whenever possible,” suggests Roianne Ahn, Ph.D., Psychologist, STAR Center in Greenwood Village, Colorado. “The holidays are a time to remember that everyone has hidden gifts that are delightfully special. Look for those qualities in yourself and your children everyday.”

The SPD Foundation offers a variety of sensory products through its eStore.

To learn more about SPD, including education, research and treatment options, visit

The Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) Foundation, a Colorado 501(c)(3), offers educational programs, conducts SPD research, and provides resources for parents worldwide. Dr. Lucy Jane Miller, widely recognized as a leader in SPD research worldwide, founded the SPD Foundation in 1979. For more information, visit or call (303) 794-1182.

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