Sometimes the success lies in knowing what not to do when it comes to how to pick up women.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) March 27, 2012
A lot of the tips and techniques that help men attract women focus on what a guy should say and how he should act. Very few people concentrate on what men should avoid saying and doing when learning how to pick up women, Xuma says in his new report.
There are certain things that men should avoid saying and doing if he wants to be successful in attracting women and Xuma’s report details six common mistakes that men make in this area.
The first thing men should avoid saying if they want to pick up women is that they still live at home, Xuma says in his report.
“However, times have changed and even the most hardworking, ambitious guy might find himself in this situation,” Xuma says. “The key is that it must be a temporary situation and that the man must spin it this way - and even make light of it, which shows he is confident in himself despite these unfortunate, but temporary circumstances.”
For instance, there is a difference between a man just flat out saying he lives with his mom and dad, and being more explanatory.
“That triggers the major loser red light,” Xuma says. “That’s like a guy having a big ‘L’ tattooed on his forehead.”
Instead, a man who finds himself in this position should emphasize that it is a temporary situation, giving him time to get money saved and back on his feet, Xuma says.
“A guy can also spin it in a positive light saying because it is a temporary situation, he’s enjoying interacting with his parents again as an adult,” Xuma says in his report on how to pick up women.
Another technique is to bring some humor to the situation.
“A guy can make a joke about it by saying that although he is living at home again for a bit, he refuses to put his Star Wars sheets back on his bed,” Xuma says. “HE can joke and ask the girl if she wants them, saying they are pretty cool sheets.”
By doing this, the man is showing he is still full of self-confidence despite his temporary setback financially, Xuma explains.
That is just one example of the six key things Xuma outlines in his report that men should avoid doing if they are trying to pick up women.
Carlos Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and sharing tips on how to pick up women.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.datingdynamics.com