(PRWEB) March 25, 2012
Some people are no longer paying for private investigators or messy divorces when they suspect infidelity, says marriage and family therapist Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil - there's something much cheaper. In an article on the Huffington Post, it's revealed that suspicious spouses can have an infidelity DNA test run on their partner for just $200 (http://huff.to/GH9fJy) Those suspecting their partner of an affair can provide an item of soiled clothing to the DNA testing company and they do the rest. Sixty percent of people who use this service are men, and about 30 percent of the time, the suspected spouse is in fact having an affair. It's a permanent memento, a high-tech way of telling if someone's cheating.
Dr. Bonnie contends, this isn't an invasion of privacy: "If the partner is innocent, they have nothing to hide so they shouldn't worry about someone taking samples from their clothing," she says. A spokesperson at the DNA testing service says the service is typically utilized as a last resort, when the person needs their suspicions confirmed. But, says Dr. Bonnie, why ask the question when you know the answer? When a couple gets to this point, she says, it's a crucial time to look at the warning signs and create a "stop sign" or boundary in order to stop the cheating.
Does your partner:
- Excessively mention a person or colleague?
- Stop mentioning a specific person?
- Engage in irritable or argumentative behavior?
- Have unexplained absences
- Wait by the phone, or take phone with them wherever they go, even to shower? Or are they constantly texting?
Infidelity of a spouse can manifest itself in children as well, who are sensitive to the dynamics of their parents. Has your child started wetting their bed, or acting out? These unexplained occurrences can potentially point to an unfaithful partner as well.
What these warning signs will do - and why the DNA test is popular - is give the suspicious partner evidence to quell fears and suspicions about their spouse.
Dr. Bonnie mentions these warning signs in both her books, Adultery the Forgivable Sin, and Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery. They're also outlined further in the documentary, Unfaithful with the Oprah Winfrey Network and Discovery Health (http://bit.ly/GSP0KB), in which she was featured.
Whether someone reveals evidence of cheating through knowing these signs, or finds out through a DNA test, dealing with infidelity is an uphill battle. Dr. Bonnie believes almost any relationship can be saved - for more about her therapy tactics and treatment of sexual infidelity and intimacy issues, click here: http://youtu.be/BjrqJoWX3K4
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Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil's best-selling book, Adultery the Forgivable Sin is being re-released under a new distributor and making its appearance available in eBook format and print on Amazon.com (http://www.amazon.com/Adultery-Forgivable-Bonnie-Eaker-Weil/dp/1587768151/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1321019076&sr=8-1). Adultery the Forgivable Sin was also made into a Lifetime Original Movie starring Kate Jackson.
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, PhD, is also author of the 2010 New York Times Reader’s Choice Award-winning book Make Up Don’t Break Up with accompanying DVD. Dr. Bonnie is a marriage counselor treating couples, singles, and step families. She works with those considering breaking up, people who have committed adultery, and couples who want to strengthen their relationships damaged by resentment or unresolved anger, teaching people to “fight” to increase passion, bring back magic and restore the sizzle.
As a marriage and family therapist, Dr. Bonnie teaches Smart Heart Dialogue along with intimacy, communication, and connection tools, and counsels families and children.
Named the Best Local New York Therapist in 2011 by the US Commerce Association and known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of other books like Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, How Not to (S)mother Your Man and Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity: Making Money Sexy.
Dr. Bonnie was named by Psychology Today and NY Magazine as one of America's Best Therapists and is presently featured and available now on the Discovery Health/Oprah Winfrey Network documentary titled "Unfaithful" (http://bit.ly/GSP0KB) and A&E on addictions. Find her on Good Morning America, on the Today Show's three-day series on infidelity, The Oprah Winfrey Show five times, and a four day series on Fox TV regarding dating. She appears frequently on ABC, Fox, CBS and NBC News, The View, 20/20, and CNN; and is often featured in USA Today and the New York Times. Visit Dr. Bonnie at http://www.DoctorBonnie.com.