Accept the way people are. If it is difficult to make changes in yourself, how much more difficult it is to make changes in others.
Oyster Bay, NY (PRWEB) March 28, 2012
Learn how to be happy and wealthy from an immigrant who migrated to the USA with a total of $8 and is now ranked #1 when one Googles, "Rich Immigrants."
Dr. Harsimran Singh is an author of 13 inspirational books. The following is an extract from his book "How to Always Be Happy," which may be very helpful for anyone to be happy and wealthy in life.
According to the author, acceptance of the reality of any situation is a prerequisite for any desired result to be achieved. This also means that, as human beings, accept each other, as people are, without imposing any preconditions whatsoever and then make earnest attempts to grow together from there. When one desires change in others, one must realize how difficult it is to bring about change in oneself. "Only if the other person accepts one as a person of good intentions will that person be willing to listen to one's advice and attempt to bring about change in oneself," says Dr. Singh.
While some people have admirable qualities, some may have qualities and characteristics that may be undesirable to others as well. To really move forward, one must accept all differences and learn to overlook the negatives in everyone. To exist and influence others in a positive manner, one should see the good and the bright, and take them along.
Dr. Singh stresses the fact that all human beings are imperfect and humans are mortal beings. The realization and acceptance of mortality helps to accept the sorrows and appreciate the pleasures of life. Learn to accept that so many things are beyond one's control such as the death of relatives and friends. One must understand that things such as cancer and other terminal illnesses are reality as human beings. One's non-acceptance of these realities only elevates the problems instead of dealing with them head-on with a positive mindset.
As much as one must accept the cruel realizations of mortality, one must learn to accept one's own realities. If one will forever be miserable because one wants to be a famous rock star, singer or television personality, one might, after awhile, learn that one must be realistic about these types of realities as well. While positive thinking can take one places and help one accomplish things one may have previously not thought possible, there may be limitations that are beyond ambition and desires. "Goals are very important to have but those which are analyzed, grounded in fact, well thought out and pursued with vigor and tenacity are those with higher rates of success," says Dr. Singh.
"Inspirational quotes are akin to a blazing fire. If fuel is not continually added, the fire gets extinguished. So keep on adding the fuel of positive thoughts," says Dr. Singh.
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