So many guys think a good kiss is about the actual kiss,” says Judge, “But in reality, it was everything that happened before the kiss that determines if it will be good or not.
New York, NY (PRWEB) April 07, 2012
Men’s dating blogger Rob Judge recently claimed that he has to secret to the age-old question: how to kiss a girl? On his blog, Judge recently released a 1,000 word treatise on all the in’s and out’s of kissing women.
“Kissing is symbolic of so many things,” explains Judge, “For many women, a kiss signifies the moment where determine whether or not there’s chemistry with a guy. So I felt it was important to clarify how to kiss a girl.”
Judge explains in the post, titled unambiguously “How to Kiss A Girl: A Tutorial,” that kissing is mostly predicated on the moments leading up to the kiss—what he refers to as the “pre-game.” During this period, Judge advocates a man take certain precautions to ensure his first kiss with a woman is one to remember.
“So many guys think a good kiss is about the actual kiss,” says Judge, “But in reality, it was everything that happened before the kiss that determines if it will be good or not.”
Judge emphasizes that men learn to create and control the amount of sexual tension felt between themselves and the women they are hoping to kiss. He claims that sexual tension is the “glue that holds a great date—or kiss—together.”
He offers men some examples of strategies to elicit this much-needed sexual tension, such as complimenting women in a particular way. For Judge, it’s less about flattering her and more about communicating one’s interest in a direct fashion.
“Tension is all about being direct,” Judge states, “If a man is trying to hide his desire or interest, he’s really shooting himself in the foot.”
Judge posted his thoughts on how to kiss a girl on Wednesday, April 3, 2012 and already the post has garnered a buzz on Facebook and Twitter.
Rob Judge has spent the past 5 years teaching men to meet and attract women, both through products and live coaching.
Date Hotter Girls has released several books on meeting and attracting women. Magnetic Messaging is the latest release from Judge.