Dating Advice: Top Tips on How to Get Women
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) April 19, 2012
For many men, the reasons women choose to date one guy over another seem unfathomable. Take the woman who ditches the corvette driving executive for the down-and-out artist who doesn’t even have a car, To someone unfamiliar with the rules of attraction, this makes little sense. But there is a rhyme and reason to these choices, Xuma says in his new report on get women.
What does that gorgeous girl see in the artist that makes her like him enough to ditch the seemingly more appealing guy? If a man understands the three rules of attraction, his success with women will skyrocket.
In Xuma’s new report, he reveals the three basic rules of attraction and how guys like the down-and-out artist use them to pull women like there’s no tomorrow.
The first rule of attraction Xuma teaches in his report on how to get women is that women want what they believe is unattainable.
“It’s one of the most basic rules of attraction,” Xuma says. “In other words, women want what they can’t have. As a matter of fact, men want the same thing. It’s just human nature. The more a guy wants something and the more he can’t have it, the more obsessed he becomes.”
The concept as Xuma outlines in his report on how to get women is that the more a girl feels a guy is a challenge and outside her grasp or realm, the more she will want the guy. So, that needs to be his goal, to make her feel that way about him.
“At the same time,” Xuma points out. “The woman needs to feel like there is a slight chance or a small hope of getting the guy. Even if that chance is super slim, it will be enough to spark her interest.”
In his report on how to get that girl, Xuma outlines specifics on just how men can present themselves as challenges to women.
“Men can do a couple of different things to make her feel that way,” Xuma says. “For instance, a guy can work to make sure he’s not available all the time. He can easily do this by simply being busy and being out meeting other women. In other words, acting in ways that show he isn’t that guy waiting by the phone for her to return his call. If a guy makes it a reality and makes it natural by having a fulfilled and busy life, he will have conquered that first rule of attraction.
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and sharing tips on pick up artist techniques and advice on how to get women.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.alphaconfidence.com