Top Dating Advice for Guys Revealed in New Report
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) May 17, 2012
Chivalry is a lost art and men who adopt is as part of their behavior will have women flocking to them in droves, Xuma says in his report on top flirting tips for men.
“Being chivalrous means opening doors, including those for buildings and vehicles,” Xuma says. “It also means letting a woman go first, whether that is through a doorway, onto a bus, sitting at a table and so on.”
Acting in a chivalrous manner also means pulling out her chair, ordering for her once she decides, helping her with her coat and walking on the street side of the sidewalk, Xuma explains in his report on hot dating advice for guys.
“The key is to not make a big deal out of these gestures,” Xuma explains. “Just try to fit them in seamlessly and naturally. Men need to act as if this behavior were routine and it will soon become that.”
That means men shouldn’t make a display out of his actions so it doesn’t appear as if he is giving the woman special treatment or trying to impress her, Xuma says.
“Men need to convey the impression that they do this all the time for the women in their life,” Xuma says in his report revealing top dating tips for guys.
Another behavior that men need to adopt if they want to be successful in the dating arena is to always stake the initiative, Xuma says in his report.
“It’s a fact of life that men must take the initiative,” Xuma says. “It doesn’t matter how much a guy likes it when a woman approaches or calls him first, it’s up to him to make the first move.”
Xuma says while there may be instances when women are the ones initiating contact, men should not count on that happening.
“Men need to be comfortable as the one who takes the initiative,” Xuma says in his report on dating advice for guys. “It doesn’t matter how independent a woman is, she still wants a man to be a man. This stems from centuries of biological programmed mating behavior. That is not going to go away overnight. Men need to accept that most women want a guy who takes charge.”
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men effective flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and sharing tips on pick up artist techniques and dating advice.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.datingdynamics.com