San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) June 05, 2012
Men who are rock stars in the dating world know that picking up women is simple, but not easy, Carlos Xuma explains in his new report.
“That means that the secret to confidently picking up women is shedding old behavior and adopting new habits,” Xuma says in a new report on how to pick up women easily. “The first thing men need to do in this three-step method is analyze their current pick up strategies. “ What often happens is with a little hindsight and self-analysis, it becomes crystal clear what doesn’t works and what doesn’t.”
The first step in becoming an expert at how to pick up women is for a man to keep a log of his attempts to do so, Xuma says.
“Men need to go out about five times and log everything that was said and how the night played out,” Xuma says. “With this method and being hyper vigilante, almost like the man is looking down and watching himself, he will almost always see where it went wrong.”
In addition, Xuma reveals in his report, a man should also pay close attention and note what went right.
“Too many men just wing it and don’t take time to figure out where they went wrong,” Xuma said. “Nobody can expect to improve without knowing what works and what doesn’t.”
For instance, maybe a man will realize that as soon as he reached in to put his arm around a woman, she drew away, Xuma said.
“He should make a mental note of that. If the same thing happens next time, he is probably doing something wrong there, maybe moving into physical contact too early,” Xuma said. “Or if he tries it again and the woman responds, then he knew the first woman’s reaction had nothing to do with his approach, but was her own deal.”
This first step is just one of the three steps Xuma reveals in his new report on tips for attracting women. The report goes into deeper detail on all three steps so men will learn how to effortless pick up women.
Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men how to spark attraction in women and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work on dating advice on attracting women and sharing tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, how to pick up women and flirting tips for guys.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.attractwomen.com