San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) September 20, 2012
“Some of the most alpha male moves are done off the cuff,” Carlos Xuma says. “For instance, recently a guy at a dance club wasn’t getting the kind of response from women that he sought. He had read the report on effective flirting for guys and thought about how he could come across as an alpha male.
Just by changing his body language - lifting his head, straightening his back, pushing his chest out - he instantly looked and felt more confident and dominant. He later left the club with a girl on his arm and five phone numbers in his pocket.”
Sometimes it takes that exact sort of thinking on the fly about how to be an alpha male to be successful with women, Xuma says.
“Now, that is just one example of one man using the flirting for guys techniques he had read about to attract women,” Xuma says. “By doing something so seemingly brazen, he had instantly established himself as an alpha male in the room. He was confident and didn’t care what anyone else thought. This, in essence, made him irresistible to most women in the room. They loved it and were squealing and touching his abdomen.”
This kind of thinking can be re-enforced by studying what other people do and learning the best flirting for guys. In this case, Xuma says, acting like an alpha male was the most potent way to flirt.
“Having a healthy dose of self-confidence is often the basis for effective flirting and attraction,” he says. “This guy knew he hit gold from the second he walked out of the bathroom and a woman smiled at him.”
Other flirting tips for guys might include knowing when a woman is interested by her body language, what to say to a woman who seems shy, and how and when a man should first initiate physical contact after first meeting.
Carlos Xuma has taught thousands of men through his website at http://www.attractwomen.com how to attract women and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. He has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He’s the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has also been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and sharing tips on techniques to attract women, alpha male behavior, how to find a woman online dating, seduction tips, and how to talk to girls.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma’s website at http://www.carlosxuma.com