The underlying theme for most guides on how to pick up women in self-improvement.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) February 12, 2013
Any guy who wants to learn how to pick up women should focus less on what he is going to say and do when he gets around a woman and more on improving himself so he is the best man he can be, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report.
“Most guys who are just learning how to pick up women make the same mistake,” Xuma says. “They focus on funny jokes or one-liners or ways to approach a woman. But the reality is that by doing that they are putting the cart in front of the horse. Any guy who wants to be successful in the dating arena, needs to back up and look at the package he is presenting to the world.”
In fact, Xuma says in his report, the underlying theme for most guides on picking up women is self-improvement.
“It’s not secret that a guy is bound to be more successful with women if he is putting his best foot forward,” Xuma says. “That is why the essence, the groundwork of pickup involves some honest inventory about what needs to be improved and polished for a guy to be the best man he can be.”
Xuma’s report focuses on aspects of a man such as health, weight, dress, interests, and confidence.
“Getting a good grasp on these aspects of a guy’s character can make all the difference in the world,” Xuma says. “A big area that many men need to learn about in order to present a confident face to the world is alpha male behavior. Too many men don’t understand exactly what alpha male traits and characteristics are and why they are so important to adopt as part of their own personality.”
By misconception, Xuma explains, too many men pin their concept of the alpha male with traits and behaviors of a typical jerk.
“An alpha male isn’t a jerk,” as Xuma emphasizes in his report on how to pick up women. “Instead, an alpha male is a guy who knows what he wants, what he likes, what he will put up with and what he won’t put up with. He is also honest and has integrity. There is very little that could even be confused with jerk behavior.”
An alpha male, Xuma explains, is not afraid to speak up for what he wants. He also isn’t afraid to show anger if necessary, but he is always one hundred percent under control.
Carlos Xuma is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. Xuma has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys, including how to pick up women, and how to meet women through his website, http://www.win-with-women.com.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.carlosxuma.com.