San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) March 14, 2013
There is a whole lot more that is key to attracting women than a nice car, good looks, a big house and a great job - but most guys only focus on the superficial factors that they mistakenly think are necessary to get dates, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report.
“The secrets to attracting women are much more simple, and yet more complex, than those superficial things like an expensive watch, money to burn, or a sweet penthouse apartment,” Xuma says. “In fact, time and again, a girl will turn her back on the guy driving the Corvette and go with the guy who is driving the beater car if he can grasp ahold of what these secrets are.”
Xuma’s new report outlines several secrets that men have been using for decades in order to successfully attract women. He gives men hands on tips on how to put these long-held secrets into practice and offers step-by-step guides on how they work. In addition, Xuma gets to the heart of the matter and unveils why these secrets work.
“One secret that is pretty obvious but most men don’t realize is that the ability to be successful in attracting women has everything to do with how a guy is able to make a woman feel,” Xuma says. “This applies to how she feels physically, yes, as is chemistry and attraction, but it goes much, much deeper than that and really is about how a man makes a woman feel about herself.”
Xuma’s new report outlines the steps a man can take to make a woman feel so great about herself around a particular guy that she doesn’t want to be without him. And, Xuma warns, it’s not about telling the girl how pretty she is.
“Too often guys think that the way to a girls’ heart and further is through laying a compliment on her,” Xuma explains. “This so rarely works that it is heavily discouraged. In fact, more often than not, a compliment will actually backfire.”
The reason why this doesn’t work in attracting women, Xuma says, is because every guy under the sun has already complimented an attractive woman about something at some time in her life.
“A guy who is trying to attract women with compliments is just lumping himself into the same category as every other male out there,” Xuma explains. “Attracting women is much more subtle than that.”
Xuma goes into more specifics in his new report.
Carlos Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has spent years teaching hundreds of men important dating skills, such as how to flirt with girls, how to pick up women, and how to meet women through his website, http://www.datingdynamics.com. He is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. Xuma has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.attractwomen.com