San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) March 21, 2013
There really is a way to call girls and not look like a desperate and needy guy. By following a particular set of guidelines, all guys can call women and get them to pick up and even call back, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report.
“The trick is to follow a few simple rules and guidelines that show women a guy has a busy, exciting life, and that while he would like to have her participate in that life on a certain level, he also is not depending on her company or interest in order to lead an exciting, fulfilling and enviable life,” Xuma said. “It is all about projecting an aura of confidence and an attitude that shows the guy has all the attractive alpha male traits that women are drawn to.”
Xuma’s new report on how to call girls and get them to call back deals with the rules a guy should follow to ensure he never slips from alpha male status to chump status.
“One rule that is pretty important when calling a girl for the first time is to leave a very brief and concise message,” Xuma explains in the report on how to call girls. “Guys who ramble on end up sounding insecure, needy, and like they don’t know what they are doing. In other words, like a chump who has never called a girl before in his life.”
Instead, a guy needs to leave a message that conveys confidence and even nonchalance, Xuma says.
“Even if it really is the first time a guy has ever in his entire life called a woman, he needs to do everything in his power to pull it off and give the impression that he actually calls beautiful women every day and, in fact, has been doing so for years,” Xuma says. “That is why guys are almost always better off saying as little as possible during that first call.”
There are, of course, two paths a guy can follow when he is learning how to call a girl, Xuma says.
“If a guy leaves a message, he needs to say his name, maybe where they met, and ask her to call him. Period. That’s it. Nothing else,” Xuma says. “If a girl answers, at first same deal: name, where they met. Then he can express brief interest in her day. Listen to her response. Say something that shows he’s listening and then immediately launch into his plan to meet. Get in and get out - he's succeeded in how to call a girl so she calls back, and now that's how to follow through."
Carlos Xuma has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. He is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. His advice has appeared on his site http://www.datingdynamics.com. He has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has spent years teaching hundreds of men important dating skills, such as how to call girls, how to pick up women, and how to attract women.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.carlosxuma.com.