There is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about in studying rules in how to pick up women that have been tested by hundreds of men over the years and are proven to be effective.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) March 31, 2013
There are some hard and fast rules on how to pick up women that most men just ignore and that is entirely the problem, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report.
“Some guys don’t understand that if it isn’t working, then they should try something new,” says Xuma in his new report on how to pick up women. “Instead, most guys just keep on trying the same thing that didn’t work over and over again. They don’t realize that there are some basics about pick up that are tried-and-true and really easy to implement."
Most guys, as soon as they realize this, jump on board the bandwagon and are thrilled that somebody pointed out these ten easy steps in how to pick up women, Xuma says.
“It is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about,” he adds. “We’ve all realized at one point or another that some methods just don’t work. The main reason these ten steps are in this report is that they have been tested by hundreds of men over the years and are proven to be effective.”
One of the first rules that Xuma shares in his report on how to pick up women is the leaving a message rule.
“This seems so basic that most guys don’t realize the full impact it has on their dating lives,” Xuma says. “Basically, this rule gives very explicit directions on how to leave that first message for a girl.”
The rule states that when a guy is calling a girl for the first time, he leaves and extremely brief, concise message pointing out where they met, his name and then a brief statement to call him back.
“That’s it,” Xuma says. “Nothing else. Too many guys spend a whole lot of time blabbing on about how and where they met or what the guy thinks of her and how cool she is or how cool he is, when the reality is that most of the time, that is a surefire way to blow it and kill her interest.”
Instead, Xuma advises, leaving a concise message, as described above, screams assurance and self-confidence, and will work just as effectively if not more effectively than a long drawn out message.
“The fact is that if a girl is interested, that brief message is going to be enough for her to call the guy back,” Xuma says. “But on the other hand, if a long, rambling message is left, she might decide the attraction really isn’t there and not call back.”
Carlos Xuma is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. He has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has spent years teaching hundreds of men important dating skills, such as how to flirt with girls, how to pick up women, and how to attract women. Xuma has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.datingdynamics.com.