Knowing what to text a girl is not complicated, provided an understanding of what works and what doesn't.
San Mateo, CA (PRWEB) April 02, 2013
A real ability to build attraction through texting is a rare skill that, once learned, will set any guy apart from the ground, says Dating Expert Carlos Xuma in his new report.
“Any guy who can use texting as a way to increase a woman’s attraction to him will stand head and shoulders above every other guy in the dating arena,” says Xuma in his new report on what to text a girl. “Most guys not only have zero ability to build attraction through texting, but many even ruin any initial spark by their lack of texting acumen.”
The first rule in knowing what to text a woman really involves understanding the role texting plays in the modern dating world, Xuma says.
“As long as a guy realizes that the main goal of texting is a tool to garner an in-person meeting, then he can take it to a higher level and try to build attraction through what he says through text,” Xuma says. “Knowing what to text a girl is not something that comes naturally to most men, which is why this new report was prepared.
After interviewing hundreds of men about what works and what doesn’t when it comes to texting, Xuma’s new report gives specific, hands-on advice on what a guy should type and what a guy should avoid typing, he says.
“For instance, because texting cannot convey tone or mirth, it is best for a guy to avoid any negging when he texts a girl,” Xuma says. “And any texts of an explicit nature should most definitely be saved until an intimate relationship has been initiated.”
Knowing what to text a girl also involves some rules regarding when to text, how often to text, and what should be said, Xuma says.
“While all these rules can seem a little overwhelming, they really aren’t,” Xuma says. “Most are logical and make sense but still need to be pointed out. For instance, sometimes a guy needs to be reminded to let a little time pass between receiving a woman’s text and responding to it. Or that sometimes it helps for the guy to be the one to break off the conversation. Little tricks like this help a guy have effective text game. That means building attraction instead of losing it.”
Knowing what to text women is not complicated, Xuma says, as long as men have a basic understanding of what works and what doesn’t.
Carlos Xuma has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has spent years teaching hundreds of men important dating skills, such as how to flirt with girls, how to pick up women, and how to attract women. He is the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. Xuma has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio.
For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at http://www.carlosxuma.com.